Post # 1
What kinds of shots did your photographer take while you were getting ready? Did you actually get any of them printed?
I don’t like people taking photos of me at the best of times. I’m only having an Maid/Matron of Honor, so there’s no real need for exclusive pics of us. The idea of someone taking shots of me or other random objects while I have my hair and makeup done sounds really annoying.
When I said this to my family, they insisted I would want photos while I was getting ready. They suggested I talk to any prospective photographers to find out what a “getting ready” photo session would entail and if it was something I’d want.
But I’d rather not trust the opinion of someone who’s trying to sell me a product on whether or not that product is really necessary. So I’d like to hear from you, other brides. Were your getting ready pics worth it?
Post # 2
I got photos of putting on the dress but that’s it. I definitely didn’t want photos wit my makeup half done or pictures of my hair. I much prefered our photographers to stay later in the day then take pictures of getting ready. I don’t miss not having those photos at all but love the dance party photos we got instead!
Post # 3
CorgiCorps: I did the same as MrsN14… mainly just me getting my dress zipped up in the back by my mom, and then my Bridesmaid or Best Man “fluffy” out the body and train. That was mainly what I wanted, to get moments like that.
I didn’t get any putting on my jewelry like some have done with the same photographer. I know I wasn’t given the direction, but at the same time… don’t really feel I needed that. Yes, it would be a nice photo… but who would get that printed anyway?
I had my now-SIL take a couple photos while hair was getting done, but that was it. I did my own make-up before my hair so none of that was going on either. I was thinking I could have taken a few pics of the item used, but it’s my every day routine so I could always do it another time and “pretend” it was on that morning.
Post # 4
CorgiCorps: I got pictures of me getting in to the dress, that’s it. I talked to my photographer about it, and she said that while she loves doing getting ready photos, hardly anyone prints them and there are better ways to spend the money.
Post # 5
I agree, that most of getting ready photos are not worth printing, especially those with half-done make-up. But I got several very cute photos of my Fiance and father snacking in the kitchen; our cat; rings; also pictures of my Fiance getting ready and several others, all this during about 2 hours, so I think bride is not the only photo worthy object in this process, if you happen to have bridal party and family members getting ready in the same location. If you are only with Maid/Matron of Honor and find the whole idea annoying, skip it; if anything, Maid/Matron of Honor or your hairdresser can have some quick snapshots in the process.
Post # 6
CorgiCorps: I didn’t have any getting ready pictures taken and I don’t regret it. Our photographer was already at the top of our budget and we didn’t want to pay extra for photos we knew we were unlikely to want to print out.
On the day, I was so nervous before the ceremony I don’t think I could have coped with a strange person there while I was getting ready. One of my six bridesmaids asked if they could ALL come in to watch me put my dress on, and I was like “Um… No.” I really needed those few minutes with just me and my mum just to calm down.
It sounds like it would make you feel uncomfortable to have the photographer there at that point and you don’t really want the photos anyway, so I think you should skip them. You’ll have plenty of other lovely photos.
ETA: we did have the photographer come round just a few minutes before the ceremony to take pics with my parents, etc, and that was nice.
Post # 7
I have some pictures of my MoH doing up the back of my dress that are cute, but that’s about it. It’s not something I would want a lot of and I would never print/frame them. My photographer also went around and took pics of the decor and such during this time before the guests arrived.
Post # 8
My get ready pics were just of the MUA putting the “final touches” on my makeup (even though she was already done lol), me putting on the dress and my jewelry and my SIL putting on my veil.
I like looking back at those pictures because I can remember how excited I was getting ready to get married!
But really, it’s what you feel is worth it. If you are uncomfortable then you might regret having those shots done. But if you’re open to it, you might just have fun and make great memories you can look back to!
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Post # 10
I had them done and it was worth it – I have some great candid shots – lots of meaningful moments with the women in my life – I didn’t print them and frame them but I did use many of the in my album – and also I liked the hair and makeup shots 🙂 here is a sample (my sister’s foot is in an ice bucket because she stepped on a curling iron while we were all getting ready poor thing – she was a champ about it)
Post # 11
we started getting ready at noon for 4:00 first look pictures. my hair and makeup were towards the end of everyone. our photog showed up around 2ish, he took pictures of me getting my hair and makeup and some pics of the girls helping me get the final touches on my dress. he also took some around the venue and found Darling Husband with friends doing some cute stuff. mine were worth it. but you could also have a friend with a camera take some shots of that time too.
Post # 12
- Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016
I decided to do my hair and makeup without my photographer there and have her take pictures of me getting into my dress with my bridal party already ready. We wanted out photographer to stay a bit longer to capture more of our reception and I’m really glad we did it that way. I have pictures of me getting into my dress, hanging out with my girls, my mom putting my veil and bracelet on me, and me putting my garter on. The pictures still really capture the pre-ceremony mood and I don’t miss the makeup and hair shots since they weren’t a priority for me (:
Post # 13
CorgiCorps: I didnt find them worth it….. some of my bridal party was missing from that part of the day so group shots are kinda out. I also didn’t purchase matchy-matchy items for this part of the day for my girls (robes, shirts, etc) so I really didn’t need a photographer to capture this moment.
Me getting into my dress is not really something I would want to hang on a wall or put in an album.
I have a few good shots of me putting on make up in the mirror put that is about it…..
I think its more worth while to spend the time on first looks and other couples photos.
FIRST LOOK was the most important part of the day for me as it truly captured my Darling Husband and I, The photos are so romantic, pure, surreal………..
Post # 14
I love my getting ready photos. It didn’t cost us any extra, but I think, looking at my photos, I would have paid for it. My dress was photographed (even details of the lace and beading which is beautiful in photos), which was important to me since my grandpa paid for the dress (and he passed before the wedding). My veil was photographed, which was important to me since it was my mom’s and she re-made it and hand-beaded it. Other details like my shoes gifted by my bridesmaids, my watch from my FI/DH, and our gifts to each other were photographed as well, and I believe my flowers were also photographed during this time. My mom and sister lacing me into my dress and the expressions on our faces are some of my favorite photos of the day. MY Mother-In-Law was there as well and we have a beautiful photo me and my two moms together.
I did have a large bridal party and so we had a lot of getting ready photos together (some great individual shots of them and then some group photos outside as well). This might be different for you as you have a smaller party.
If you think you’ll be uncomfortable, I’d say don’t do the photos. But I just wanted to put my two cents in as there are other things you might want photographed during that time, and you have options–like having the photographer arrive after most of your makeup and hair is done so you don’t feel like pictures will be unflattering. FWIW, I barely noticed the photographer taking shots of all the details of my attire. I only noticed her when we took those bridal party shots together, and that was planned. You’ll be busy doing other things and they will only be documenting what’s going on (if they are professional about it). If your dress, other wedding details, and family/MOH is special to you, then I still say, don’t miss out on having it photographed!<br /><br />
Post # 15
Mine were worth it but ours were less “getting ready” and more “hanging out before going to the church”.
When the photog arrived, our hair and makeup was already done. He took some pictures of us milling around drinking mimosas and then there are pics of
1. My mom helping me put my dress on
2. My “first look” with my dad (these are amazing)
I agree with the above poster, our BEST pics are our first look pictures, they are so emotional. Time well spent, and it was only about 10 minutes!