Post # 1
But I wasn’t planning on inviting them to ours.
This is a friend, more of an aquantence actually because I went to jr high/high school with her, and only see her once or twice a year. We just received an invite to their wedding this summer, but I wasn’t planning on inviting them to ours next year.
I’m not sure what their guest list is like, but ours is capped at 100 and we are already having a hard time cutting ours down from closer friends, and family.
What should we do? Should we gratefully decline their invite, or should we try to squeeze them in? Should we go, but not invite them? Ack!
Post # 3
Don’t worry about it! It isn’t obligatory–if they mention anything about it, just say unfortunately you couldn’t invite everyone you wanted. I’m sure they’ll understand.
Post # 4
I wouldn’t go to their wedding if there isn’t any way you can invite them to yours. Your wedding is close enough to theirs that they would probably wonder why you didn’t invite them. Cutting people from the invite list is tough isn’t it?
Post # 5
I just wouldn’t go to theirs. That would cut down on a lot of confusion.
Post # 6
I wouldn’t worry about it. This happened to us too. We aren’t going, but more for schedule/budget reasons.