- 9 years ago
So…this weekend we were hangin out at SO’s parents house, and the discussion of marriage came up yesterday afternoon and due to some recent family health problems, we were discussing putting an official engagement on hold, until everyone was healthy, and SO looks at me and asks me if I would indulge his “silly request”, i said yes and sure go ahead (thinking that he was gonna be silly like always) and before i know it, he had pulled me into a sitting positon on the edge of his bed, and he is sitting on the floor on his knees infront of me, and he says, “be nice, I know right now I can not officially say this, but I love you and wanted to know if you would marry me”, i thought he was just messing with me, so i kinda laughed, and kissed him, then he insisted that he was serious, he wanted to know, but he wasnt going to call it our “Official’ proposal since he didnt have my ring, and he wanted things to be settled with my families health problems, atleast move out of the acute phases of the problems, and then we would make it official, and he would give me my ring, but for now,we are technically engaged since he asked and i said yes (of course), but we are waiting to officially announce everything when i have my ring on my finger, and everyone is feeling a little better, so we are but, not telling anyone, and i was about to burst! and apparently so is he since we are debating on who we can tell to keep it underwraps until my nephew is better, because right now all of our attention needs to be on him (he is such a sick lil guy right now :(. )…. so i am unofficialy engaged i guesse…I even get a second proposal when he gives me the ring! (he insists)…and i dont wanna tell my family right now because even though they expect it anytime now, I am the one who wanted to wait until we knew more with my nephew…but the gesture was so sweet, and he really meant it, but he wants to make a big ordeal out of the proposal, i had to tell someone! SO Im telling you lovely bees since no one knows my true identity on here just bits and pieces…Im so excited, hes been reffering to me as his fiance ever since, and with out prompting (normally im refffered to as his wifey)! thaks for letting me get this out!