(Closed) We're not pregnant! And we never will be!

posted 10 years ago in No Kids
Post # 4
1335 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I hope we will be soon, too!  I’m thrilled for you that you are able to get this accomplished…. I know all too well the plight of trying to convince doctors that you know in your heart that you truly do not want children.  Congrats!!!!!!  You must be ecstatic!!!!!

Post # 5
2268 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Awesome! Hope it goes smoothly! My DH will hopefully soon be following in his footsteps!

Post # 7
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m glad you both see eye to eye and worked everything out! I don’t want children either and it’s been a nightmare trying to explain this to his family. I really doubt my Fiance would have the surgery, it’d probably have to be me, but I’m so happy that you guys are working together and supporting each other!

Post # 8
666 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Just curious, have you heard that there is now a staple method? Meaning it’s not permanent if kids were wanted later downthe line. They just simply remove it?  I haven’t heard much about it by Future Sister-In-Law brought it up to me they are considering using it.


But, back to you…goodluck 🙂

Post # 10
145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Glades Pike Winery, Somerset, PA

Ohh, congratulations!! I wish Mr. Wiz would get the snip, but he wants to wait, so for now I will just live jealously and vicariously through you and others who have gotten the snip 😛 Good luck to him during the procedure + recovery, and enjoy your baby-free sex!! 🙂

Post # 11
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

@SecretSharpie:  That’s awesome!!  Fiance and I are still on the fence about having kids on the future but leaning towards nuuuuu… hope the operation goes smoothly and you can enjoy yourselves that much more!

Post # 12
1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Fiance and I aren’t child-free (we each have a child from a previous relationship), but I can tell you I was sure glad to find out early on that Fiance was snipped several years ago.  We love our children dearly, but neither of us wanted any more!

Post # 13
587 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We don’t want children, but we want the option in case we change our minds later on down the line (I’m 25, he’s 23.). It kinda sucks for me because due to a health issue we can’t use BC pills. So it’s condoms for us. I did hear about male BC possibly coming to the market within the next few years though, which I’m super excited about. 

Anyway, congrats! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for your decision not to have kids. (that happens to me on the regular) It’s not for everyone! 

Post # 14
2051 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

LOL. I like that you called it “getting fixed.” LOL. I’m happy for you! I’m sure this will be a great thing!

Post # 15
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Congrats to you – and an especially big yay for doctors who don’t second guess their patients’ wishes!

Post # 16
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I am extremely envious of you!

My partner doesn’t want to get the snip, he doesn’t want anyone messing with his bits I think he said.

I went to the doctor, she basically laughed me all the way to the door. We talked about getting the coil, I’ve had the implant for nearly 3 years and want to try something else. So I said : I knew I wasn’t going to walk in here and have you say ‘Yep, let’s get you signed up’ but I thought if I at least had it on record and then a can get a couple of coils, it’ll be 10 years later and we can talk about it again once you have proof over time of how serious I am.’

Her responce? ‘Well, we’ll see, you never know how you might change in 5 years time….’

Gr! But anyway, yay for you!

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