(Closed) We're so busy with our wedding, company and plans – I feel jealous?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@funkymunky85:  I think you’re probably just stressed from all the things going on, so everything seems worse. And you’re upset that you won’t see him for days.

I don’t think you have anything to worry about. Is there anything fun you could do for yourself tonight?

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@funkymunky85:  I understand being upset at not being able to see him for days on end.

I don’t understand exactly what you mean by you feel untrusting of him and his friend at the golf course because there may be female golfers and female servers there.  Care to elaborate on why you feel that way?  Has he given you any reason to not trust him?

Can you just go and play golf with them?

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@funkymunky85:  That makes a lot more sense.  And yes, being pregnant does have its hormonal ups and downs.  I wish I could give you a great big hug!

Just talk to him and let him know you’re feeling a little sad and lonely, especially since you’ll be leaving soon.  I’m sure he will understand.  You don’t have to say anything accusatory but just let him know you’re feeling emotional and vulnerable.

I don’t think this is about you not trusting him, I think this is about the fact that you are really, really going to miss him.  I’m sure you want to spend every minute possible with him, understandably.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@funkymunky85:  It’s funny because I am the same way sometimes.  My Fiance and I are very close and connected as you say, most of the time.  And when we get around a group of people who take our attention away from each other it’s a weird feeling.  I can totally relate. 

The last time we were at a party at a relative’s house there were about 20 people milling around and we weren’t in the same room for a while.  Fiance came and found me and said, “It has been over an hour since I saw you, kiss me right now!”  It was cute.  And there are times I’ll go and “find” him, too, because I want that constant connection.  So I entirely relate to how you’re feeling.  I think this is the price of being so much in love and so close to someone.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think going golfing with a friend is very innocent. I hope you can clear these thoughts of other women being around your husband when you are not there. In life there will always be temptation, but we have to love our spouses, be strong enough to avoid temptation, and trust each other enough that they will do the same. Congrats on the marriage and pregnancy! I hope you have a fun time tonight and this weekend.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

E-hug part 2!

It’s amazing how much you can miss someone when they’re right there next to you. I know what you mean about “connection”. Honestly, you seem super level-headed and in touch with your emotions. Congrats on marriage, therapy, and successfully working through trust issues in such a mature, balanced way. Give yourself time to indulge in weepy feelings and trust that it will pass. Focus on the wonderful relationship you’re building and the lifetime you’ll spend together!

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