(Closed) Were you each other’s “firsts”?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Were you each other's "firsts"?
    yes (each other's first) : (99 votes)
    23 %
    no (not each other's first) : (227 votes)
    54 %
    I was his first (I have had others) : (38 votes)
    9 %
    He was my first (he has had others) : (60 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    3004 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I was his first. I’m so happy I waited and I think that he completely regrets ever having others in his life. But I know that he loves me and thinks I’m beautiful so, while my parents would flip their lid, I don’t mind. 

    Post # 4
    3068 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We will be eachothers firsts after 5 years together and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

    Post # 5
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Heckity no!

    Post # 6
    4547 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010


    Post # 7
    3522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Absolutely not!

    Post # 8
    3255 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Nope, but it doesn’t bother me. 

    Post # 9
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I will be FI’s first and I wish that he could be mine but there’s nothing I can do about it now!

    Post # 10
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    HAHAH not even close. But we are 100% better for it.

    Post # 11
    1270 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    psh. i wish. he was my second, but he had a gazillion before me. 🙁 (still hard for me to accept that)

    Post # 13
    2496 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    We will be each others firsts!  Can’t wait!!

    Post # 14
    10367 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @cyndistar3: I agree with Lysistrata! There is something about knowing that i’ve had a lot of experiences in my life that really makes me content with my future. I love that i’ve dated multiple guys, and had those adventures, and lived those experiences (which included sleeping with them). While marrying your first may be ideal for some, for me I think experience makes sex so much better, and the adventure we both went through to find one another is amazing.

    (Statistically, in the US, only 8% of the population is a virgin at age 27. Age 26 is the average age of marriage where I live. So, that should give you some insight into how most people feel about multiple partners 🙂 )

    Post # 16
    1480 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Nope! And I’m glad we’re not each other’s firsts.

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