(Closed) What a terrible idea this was.

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

When did you start?

I just brought this up to my Fiance as an idea… he looked at me as if I had 3 heads..

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@CanadianMermaid: funny because when Darling Husband mentioned this idea to me the weeks up to the wedding I gave him my death stare. 

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

We had a .5 second conversation about this… then we both lol’d and moved on. Good luck? I couldn’t do it! Lol.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I was thinking of proposing the same thing prior to our wedding…

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I joked about doing this once to my fiancé and we had a good laugh.  However, since he works 15-16 hours a day 6 days a week, we might as well be abstaining!!  Sigh…

Good luck!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Hahaha.  Good Luck! 🙂  FI and I are LDR so it’ll be 5 months for us, but much easier since we’re 4000 miles apart.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We have been discussing it. We both want to, but we also discussed how we know we will be stressed and umm, hello, is there a better stress reliever?

 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@SleepingWithNuns: haha it will be a year to our wedding in a couple of weeks.. I told him we should do it for a year…I fear what strategies he might try to pull if I were actually trying to stick to this. 

@GreenEyedMoon: Oh no this morning and you are already having a hard time !?! Maybe this is Too Much Information but does this include oral?

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@GreenEyedMoon:You guys live together and are going to abstain?? Hahahaha.  He should sleep on the couch. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t know if Fiance was joking or serious but he wanted us to wait as well. I nipped that one right in th bud.

“No way, I am having sex with you one way or another whether you like it or not!” Tasteless joke, but he got the point. We actually tried for a while and couldn’t go more than 2 weeks – he initiated.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Darling Husband and I stopped one week before the wedding…

and BOY did it make a difference!! Our wedding night was AMAZING! 

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