(Closed) What a terrible idea this was.

• Rouquine
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

@HawaiiBamaBride: FI wants nothing to do with me during that time.  Hah. I can respect that.

@harleyq: I get all sad when Fiance tells me when he’s not in the mood – like not feeling good.  I understand why, but I’m like damn it… hahaha

@GreenEyedMoon: I’m sorry, dear!! I can only imagine how you feel. I wish I had some advice, but shoot, I can’t control myself most times.  I’m worse than Fiance.

• KatyElle
• 9 years ago

I don’t really get why people do this is you were already sleeping together before, but good luck!

• Lolasmomma
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: April 2011

My husband and I tried this as well!  We also lived together for 2 years before we were married.  Let’s just say the one night we gave into temptation- 2.5 weeks before the wedding- well we just created a little unknown guest at the wedding that we didn’t find out about until 6 days after we were married!

• Mrs.T To Bee
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: July 2012

@HawaiiBamaBride: Hahaha thats when i feel at my hornyest! if thats even a word. it sucks cuz my Fiance doesnt want anything to do with me eaither lol

• Rouquine
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

@GreenEyedMoon: You’re just as bad as I am.

• Rouquine
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

@GreenEyedMoon: I believe it.  I’m sure he wants it just as bad.  FI has better impulse control as well.  I don’t know how he does it.  They need to teach us their ways.

• Rouquine
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

@GreenEyedMoon: Hahahaha. I would’ve facepalmed him.

• secondchances
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: July 2013

We are abstaining until marriage and Fiance has been finding this very difficult lately. When we were an LDR this was easy peasy but now that he comes home every weekend from the Academy he finds it much more difficult. He is so grumpy and acts mad half the time. It was really scaring me until he told me it was just sexual frustration. I really can’t relate as I still don’t feel that connected to him. We were apart much to long. That will probably change when I stop feeling like he is a stranger lol. I hope not! I like feeling like I have it all together and can control myself LOL. 

• spaneshal
• 9 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

I wouldn’t go as far as 7 weeks, maybe 2? I think you may need some intimacy to relax or the stress of wedding planning may just make you explode!