(Closed) What about this?

posted 9 years ago in Favors
Post # 3
2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Not at all!  I think that’s a wonderful idea!  I don’t know how anyone could argue with it. 

The full disclaimer: we’re not doing favors at all. 

Post # 4
12157 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Definitely not cheap at all!  I think favors are optional anyway.  Giving to charities is the OPPOSITE of cheap. 

Post # 5
898 posts
Busy bee

It’s a great idea! I would much rather know that favor money went to a good cause. I have a souvenir votive holder from three different weddings. Do you think they’re on my coffee table? Uh…no.

Post # 6
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Agreed, that is very far from cheap. It’s not only a great way to support the charity, but you’re honoring your loved ones and raising awareness of the charity and the good they do. Way to go!

Post # 7
8 posts

I think this is an opposite idea and agree with Indie that it’s the opposite of cheap.  I think it’s really classy, actually.

Post # 8
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

No, it is very generous and wonderful on your part!

Post # 9
1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2008


I love this idea – In lieu of a traditional "favor", our friends donated to the organization which researches and develops medication/treatment for the bride’s little sister’s disease.  I think everyone really appreciated it.

Post # 10
26 posts
  • Wedding: October 2003

I think that this is a beautiful way to express your love for them!  Also, in this economy charities are really suffering so I think it’s amazing!

Post # 11
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My brother and his wife did this – very appropriate!  And as someone that is trying to eliminate clutter from my life, I would appreciate this very much! 

Post # 12
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I also think that is a great idea! I’ve also heard of people including thank you cards on everyone’s plate that explained a little bit about the charity, and why you chose to donate to them!

Post # 13
80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

My Fiance and I are making charitable donations rather than spending money on favors.  We’re still in negotiations re which charities to donate to (there are so many worthy causes!), but we think our guests will appreciate the gesture.

Post # 14
484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

We’re going to do this as well – the two we’re considering are The American Cancer Society (my grandfather and his mother both passed away from cancer) OR the ASPCIA (We’re both big animal rights people)……can’t choose but leaning toward ACS

Post # 15
997 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - The Pierre Hotel

I don’t think that seems cheap at all, and it’s a great way to honor your family. Go for it!

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