Post # 32
I take forever to fall asleep and he is asleep within seconds. Whenever I put my hand on his chest he always puts his hand over mine and holds on, and this is in his sleep. It makes me feel so special everytime.
Also before he leaves for work in the morning he asks if I need anything and he makes sure our cat is in the room with me… he knows I like it when she sleeps next to me.
Post # 33
His deep voice, his dark eyes and long lashes, his model-like black hair, his sometimes cheesy or crazy smile and his slightly tanned skin
He’s a tall, slightly buff guy but extremely gentle and sweet
He’s not afraid to express his feelings (I don’t think he’s EVER lied to me) and has always treated me as an equal
The fact that he’s trying to get further in life to build a future for us both
He’s never afraid to get his hands dirty and help out in the house, do groceries and/or cook (he finds the whole man’s job-woman’s job stories complete non sense. It depends on who is able to do the chores and when)
How he always helps the moment I’m in need of it
How he adapted to my family and how much he’s grown (in all senses) since first we met
(to list a few)
Post # 34
He sends flowers to my office with a note that is not signed but has a single word or phrase that we say to each other so that I know it’s him (as if it would be from anyone else!). And the way he calls me back or texts me right away if we don’t say I love you before hanging up. He also sometimes sneaks little scraps of paper into my wallet or lunch bag telling me he loves me. And…pretty much everything, but his thoughfullness is the piece de resistance!
Post # 35
So many lucky people with so many amazing FIs! Yay!
Post # 36
He does so many of the things you all have talked about (tucking me in every night, dancing to no music…) But the thing he does that melts my heart is when I watch him with our dogs! I know that is crazy talk to you non-animal ladies LOL, but they really are our babies. And when I watch him with them, I just know he will be such a good dad.
Post # 37
Fiance becomes my slave when school is in session. He does EVERYTHING short of my laundry because he’s not allowed and he makes me dinner and he listens to me bit** and moan about my days and just smiles and hugs me and makes it all go away.
Rabbit I can’t wait to see what you do for your Etsy shop, I’m so happy that you’re so optimistic and the very best weddings are the ones that are full of creativity (which is necessary when on a budget).
Post # 38
@Honeybun: I feel the same way whenever I see my Fiance with my dog, or with his cats–he’s so playful and funny. He’s the same way with kids, and it’s just so heartwarming…until he gets the kids to join him in tickling me so much that I fall over!
I have some nasty allergies, and get sick a couple times every year with respiratory or sinus woes. Fiance is a complete germophobe (and carcinophobe, but that’s another story), but he always takes care of me anyway, which was especially wonderful when I lived alone with nobody else to drive me to Walgreen’s for another bottle of cough syrup. He even kisses me when I’m sick! This is a major accomplishment for him. Somehow, he never catches anything. 🙂
Post # 39
So today his cell was ringing and I ran to get it but just missed the call. I was opening up his “missed call” menu to tell him who he had missed, and the number right below it said, “Reed, Jessica !wife!.” It cracked me up and made me melt all at the same time, since the wedding is still eight months away.
Post # 40
The way he takes care of me when I’m sick, and the way he encourages me. He makes me feel so in control of my life, like I can conquer anything.
Also, he is a musician in a band, and composes rock & pop music………. he always sings songs for me. Silly stuff that I love.