(Closed) What Address on Return RSVP Envelope?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

We also live together and don’t currently share our last name. I just put his first and my first on the return RSVP with our address, since we are the ones keeping track of who is coming to the wedding.

Post # 4
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You should put your address.. there are a couple ways you could do it:

1. The Future Mr. and Mrs. His last name

2.  your full name & his full name

3. your first name & his first name

4. just your name or just his name

Pick whichever makes you feel comfortable.

Post # 5
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

We’re jointly sharing the cost of the wedding, and it it worded so that people know that on the invitation. But I am the one in charge of the RSVPs. Fiance hasn’t touched them. But also, my apartment place doesn’t know fiance lives there(he is not on the lease), so I put my own name on the envelope. Not fiance’s name. I don’t want the apartment place seeing both names written on the envelope by accident. But I just did that to be careful: only the mailman sees the mailboxes.

Post # 7
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Nati-Lyte: I’m sure as long as the apt. # is clear and the last name is there it is trackable. 

Post # 8
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

You can pretty much put whatever you like for a name, they just care that the address and postal/zip code is correct.

I have a friend that sends me mail regularly to various nicknames, and it’s never been a problem.

I did both our full names to our shared residence.

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