(Closed) What am I supposed to think when my FI sends me this?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m sorry, that really stinks. Does he know it hurts your feelings when he does this?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Have you ever or do you often talk about wishing you had a nicer butt? Maybe he thinks he’s helping…?

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Instead of speculating about his intent, I would ask him!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

This is me being snarky, but I would send him some article about how some men should pay more attention to their manners.

Seriously, though, I would be offended if my husband sent me anything like this.  I feel like it’s passive aggressive and insulting.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@lia22: I was wondering the same thing, cos I hate my arms I asked for exercises at the gym to help… So whenever we are in the pool Fiance will remind me to work on my arms… At first I was a little annoyed then I realised he was just reminding me cos I SAID I wanted to work on my arms for the wedding. He might just think he is being helpful…

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would try out the high but curl kicks or whatever they said on the page by kicking him in the behind!  But seriously I would tell him it upsets you and ask that he understand that and not send things like that..and if he does it again then Id be pissed

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@lia22: This is exactly what I thought too! Even if you made an off-hand remark that he overheard, I’m sure his intent wasn’t to offend you. But you know him better than we do, so what do you think?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I totally get it feels shitty no matter the intent…men are really stupid about this stuff…like really stupid. Perhaps you should find an article right now about men withrock hard abs and email it to him with a line saying “how does it make YOU feel” 😉

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@MissTaken: my husband would not dare send me something like this.  Sorry, but that is way outa line… I would be highly offended, its completly inappropriate and rude. Why would someone that loves you want you to feel bad about your behind. What is your usual response when he sends ylu these things? what does he say when he sends the link? I am sorry but this really pisses me off…

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

oh please send him an article. You can even accompany it with a couple choice photos of your favorite members of the United States men’s swim team (for inspiration).

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