(Closed) What are some of the rudest comments you've gotten on your rings?

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 226
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Aaaaand the puppies steal the show!

Post # 227
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

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Mandy0721:  WOW. I can see why you aren’t really friends anymore. The only way I can shrug off people who are catty or rude about my happiness, ring, etc is to realize jealousy is at its core. I feel sorry for those who belittle and devalue others because they are so unhappy themselves. 

On a brighter note, your ring sounds beautiful!  Congrats!

Post # 228
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I have a new rudest comment about my ring that tops my list. Last week at a sporting event that my daughter participates in, my EX-mother-in-law came over to say hello. She began talking to my 2 years old son and noticed he had a small scrape on his cheek. She then said to him in a babyish type voice ” aww did your mommy scratch you with her ridiculously large ring?”  I was so pissed off she would say that! My ex’s fiance has scratched her son numerous times with her ring because the prongs are all wonky. So I said ” no, he fell. My ring has never scratched him or anyone because it’s very well made. And I like my rings to be ridiculously large.” She just gave me an f-U look and walked away. This situation reminded me that im so grateful to not have to deal with her on a regular basis anymore!

Post # 229
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Oh yes I forgot about a comment I got here on the bee when I posted my new ring for the first time. It was something like “omg, I would be so pissed, I can’t believe diamonds have fallen out of the halo already!”  My halo is somewhat intragraded where there are 4 sections of diamonds with a prong separating them. But you can tell that no diamonds have fallen out, the spaces are symmetrical. My reply was ” no I designed it that way” she then said ” oh, it looks broke”. I’m guessing this was just one of the bees/snarkychickens that don’t like me and think my upgrades and ring pic posting is annoying. This kinda upset me because I had just received the ring the day before and wanted to show it off because I was excited. But oh well, haters gonna hate 😉

Post # 230
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Hans Fahden Vineyards

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Drizzle: Ya I was pretty stunned. Let people think what they may, but I always feel like defending her. I don’t care what people say about me, because I know who I am, but people need to understand she’s amazing in every way. So much more than a trophy.

Post # 231
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Helper bee

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Theamerella:  oh god did she ever have a case of the big green monster.  Sounds like she was trying to make herself feel better

Post # 232
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

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MrsSparkleBee13:  what? I’ve never noticed anything weird looking on your ring. It must blend together well, your ring is gorgeous. That bee was weird.

Post # 233
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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MrsSparkleBee13:  OMG. I went through 16 pages and did not comment on a single post until I read this. What the ever loving … What a total cow! 

Post # 234
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I guess my ering is quite different. Marquise cut diamond 3 stone setting and the side stones are sapphire. Usually I get a whole lot of silence, mostly in the bee my ring just gets ignored. It makes me sad sometimes but my ring makes me happy and that’s all that matters. 

I had a coworker come running up to me after my engagement to see the ring and replied ‘Oh, it’s not big!’ and walked away..

Post # 235
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Helper bee

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beachbumm105:  Your ring is gorgeous. I feel at Weddingbee the most comments you get if either a) you have a (relatively) very small diamond b) you have a (relatively) HUGE diamond c) your ring design is VERY different from norms. So don’t feel ignored even though you might not get that many comments, it doesn’t mean there’s something off about it.. I think it’s just a matter of too much ring porn so bees get numbed by it easily 😀  ((I am super self-concious about my ring and always secretly hope for comments to cheer me up when I post, so I definitely do get where you’re coming from hoping to get positive feedback.))

And when it comes to you co-workers reaction, that sounds like something that should be written to a tv comedy.. Hilarious comment. That definitely tells about her character and not about your ring.

Post # 236
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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fancykitty:  Thank you so much! This is super kind. I know it shouldnt matter what a group of people online think, but sometimes its nice to get the compliment. 

I absolutely love your set! The three rings together are so elegant and classically beautiful. Id never heard of OEC before the bee, I think it’s one of my favourites. 

Post # 237
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Helper bee

Omg!!!! I’m laughing over here because this woman sounds like something straight out of a sitcom.  Wow talk about rude haters.  Please no one is mad about size.  She was incredibly jealous abs just couldn’t control herself. I’m so sorry this happened I know it had to b super uncomfortable. I can’t imagine how I would have handled that.  My experience far pales in comparison.  The rudest thing abt my ring is someone called it cute and then said it’s what you wanted right?  And then said it needed more bling. Cause I’m a plain band girl.  Even ruder however was abt my marriage. Initiall we were married spiritually by a minister, (no papers or anything) a really sweet surprise my husband planned for me. At work anytime someone would congratulate me one of my coworkers would but in and say,  loudly, she’s NOT married! !! Even calling it a pretend marriage.  Finally when I thought she was over it she asked me if it felt really different being a wife and I said a little but not a lot diff because … blah blah blah and her response was “Why,  because your NOT married? ”  sheesh, miserable women suck 

Post # 238
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

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hsharp2001:  Im curious, are you a sister wife? sister wives can get married spiritually but only one of them can be married legally to the shared husband. Either way very very rude of your coworker

Post # 239
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Nobody has said anything rude about mine to my face (benefits of resting bitch face syndrome) but when my sister got engaged this miserable old bat of a customer we had at the time made it a point to make sure everybody knew that she “carries bigger diamonds than that” around in her purse. 

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Helper bee

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MrsBuesleBee:  I got the sarcasm right off.  Never imagined you could b serious. The down side of being a sarcastic girl myself. Just apologize and move on. Lol

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