(Closed) What are you brides-to-be most stressed out about?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My wedding planning trend has been to completely agonize over one thing at a time.  Lately it was flowers.  I’ve spent the past week on fiftyflower.com constantly, trying to figure out what flowers to buy, how to stay in budget, and get enough flowers.  I had two different spreadsheets to work the numbers.  Yikes.

I’ve finally got it figured out, though, so now  I can move on to the next agonizing decision!  🙂

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Right now?  Fitting into my dress!  It has been such a long and stressful time trying to lose weight.  I lost about 30+ pounds, and my dress just barely fits… it is a 6, and when I met FI I was a 12.  I hate losing weight, it is stressful! 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Right now, finding and booking a caterer!  This is one of the few big decisions we haven’t made yet!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

This is odd, but I’m most concerned about crying through my whole day! I’m a big time crier, and what’s worse is I’m an ugly crier! My eyes get bloodshot and puffy and I get hives. Should make for some nice pictures, right?

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I keep having dreams about FORGETTING something. 

One dream involved forgetting shoes, so I had to run out of the wedding (in Manhattan) to Lord & Taylor and buy some.

One dream involved forgetting to make the speech I prepared.

One dream involved forgetting my “something borrowed” which is an important heirloom.

Anyhooooo, my biggest stress is about forgetting one of the many small details that makes the whole.   …  stress brings funny dreams..:-)

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m stressed out about this guest list!!!  My RSVP’s are due back in 2 days, and less than half of them have been returned!  I just want to know how big of a party I’m planning.  🙁

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@cbee: me too! I’m procrastinating about making my first fitting appointment because I’m worried I still won’t fit into the dress yet.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

COST! and everything looking great. And everyone having a good time!

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My wedding is in three weeks, and our final counts are due tomorrow.  Right now I’m stressed out because my future sister-in-law has decided her and her husband will no longer be attending.  A few weeks ago she made some nasty comment to me, and my fiance stuck up for me.  They ended up in a huge aruguement, about things unrelated to what she snapped at me for, and now she says she will not attend his wedding.  I feel so bad for him, but find it completely ridiculous that she is that childish.  Now without her and her husband coming, it changes the seating chart, etc…  I’m so ready for the wedding to be over. 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Right now? Stressing out about cost and food! But I know it is going to be awesome in the end.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m spazzing about the favors, which is so dumb!!

I’m also concerned about my makeup trial. I didn’t get exactly what I thought I wanted, and now I need to buck up and tell the truth that I want something different.

I’m also super stressed with work – I got a great promotion but it’s VERY busy and I’m in that learning curve – and there’s some office politics going on with another department. So, needless to say, my week long honeymoon is looking pretty fantastic right about now!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

The timeline.

The first dance (a big choreographed to-do)

The food being good

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

addressing invites and getting table cards made… korean ppl do not RSVP, they show up uninvited, and im all hectic on how everything will come together on the day of…

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