(Closed) What are you most nervous about on the big day?

posted 9 years ago in June 2012
Post # 47
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m worried about making ugly cry faces and sobbing through my vows.  My only other concern is that my guests have the best possible time.  Oh, and that my outdoor ceremony doesn’t get rained out because we have no backup plan as of right now!

Post # 48
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Newbee

Im just praying that it won’t rain, or that it wont be unbearably hot!

Post # 49
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Being able to relax and enjoy the day, I am extremely type a.

Post # 50
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m most nervous about crying, particularly during my dad’s speech. He is such an articulate man and I know his words will be so moving. It will be so hard not to lose it!

Post # 51
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

The weather.  Sucky weather would really put a damper (no pun intended) on our plans.

If it is a nice day (please please please), we’ll do the ceremony outside and my Fiance and I will make a grand entrance down a flight of stairs.  I am terrified of falling.  He really wanted me to use the stairs, but it caused me all sorts of anxiety even thinking about it, until I came up with the idea of him walking with me and doing an untraditional walk down the aisle (I was by myself otherwise).  I wouldn’t do it without him, but even with him, I’m scared.  We’ll have to practice a LOT beforehand!

Post # 52
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

just the logistics of the whole day. What if it is a nightmare?

Post # 53
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Kari 2012 — I cry everytime I watch wedding dance videos on youtube! who does that?? lol. This wedding thing is definitely making me crazy! 

I’m not really nervous about anything yet… I think I’m mostly nervous about having enough money to COVER IT ALL! 

Although I keep having dreams that the diamonds on my engagement ring fall off and I end up losing them!!! That has to be stress right? lol

 

Post # 54
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

The weather…

We are Eloping for a Destination Wedding on the Beach.  Rain would certainly SUCK !!

Would ruin both our planned outdoor ceremony & our photographs (which is WHY we have a back-up plan for a small chapel)

Rain though would mess up our Honeymoon plans too…

Can’t do much about the weather & Mother Nature, but it sure would a million times easier if the sun is shining

 

Post # 55
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

-rain

-things getting set up incorrectly/not on time

-people not having fun

-breaking out

-if my shoes will be too uncomfortable

-if my dress will look good

Post # 56
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’m just worried about having a random “bad day”. I struggle with depression and anxiety, and I just have good/ok days and bad days, and I usually don’t really know why. I’d hate to be just generally depressed on my wedding day, because I know there’ll be a lot of stress leading up to it just getting all the practical things done on time. I’d like to think that I’ll just have so much joy from knowing I get to marry the love of my life, but sometimes what’s supposed to be the happiest moments make me the most depressed because I just feel so conflicted that I feel sad at all (this happens to me often)

But I’m hoping it’s more likely that I’ll be in super excited jumping and waving my hands and shaking things mode. Hoopefully.

Post # 57
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

  • If the mismatched bridesmaids will all come together (my sister already threw a wrench into things by purchasing black shoes!  Grr…)
  • The the decor wont come together the way I see it in my head.  I’m scared it will look chintzy.
  • I HATE being the center of attention so I’m worried about anxiety.
  • I also worry that the buffet style dinner will take too long!

Photo: Yes, yes I am.

Post # 58
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My biggest fear is that my future mother-in-law will get out of control drunk at our wedding reception !

Post # 59
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

the weather, mostly! we are having an outdoor ceremony.

Post # 60
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m worried about feeling anxious about being the center of attention, that I won’t be able to relax and enjoy myself, that my hair and makeup won’t look good, and that my future SIL and/or future Brother-In-Law will do something to screw up the day.

Post # 61
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Mines that someone will ruin the day in some shape or form….it happens with usual get togethers and people on my fi’s side hate each other. Also….that my Fiance will smash cake in my face and it will ruin my make-up/hair and get on my dress, he thinks its funny, I hate it.

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