(Closed) What are you most nervous about?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Nervous about the music and food. Didn’t get to do a tasting and music can be iffy sometimes. A cousin of mine got married last weekend and everyone “had a great time”… so I feel like I can’t let them down now. Darn it.

Post # 4
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Worker bee

I’ve always been nervous about tripping and falling when I walk down the aisle. I’m a huge klutz, so if it did happen, at least it would be in character lol

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Having a panic attack walking to my reception of 600+ people.  I’m pretty shy and I HATE being the center of attention/having all eyes on me.

Also, since my period will more than likely being joining me, I’m scared I’ll be breaking out, too tired/crampy to enjoy myself or *GULP* have an accident.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My worst fear is that I will be an “ugly crier.” I’m talking mascara running, snot gobbers flowing, the whole nine. I need to NOT CRY!!

I am also petrified that I am going to have a panic attack or break out. I don’t handle stress very well (which I hate!!)

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Getting married!  Mostly because the past two weeks all we seem to do is fight. He is alwasy angry or happy with something. I know his dog passed away a few weeks ago so if he is sad I guess sadness makes him ANGRY. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Wow, PP’s have reminded me of other things I’m nervous about as well! 😉

A big one would be tripping as I’m walking down the isle.  But I also have the worry of being b*tchy the day of the wedding (b/c of anxiety)–goal is to just relax— and also getting a cold sore on the wedding day or friends drinking too much at the reception and starting a fight or something. 

Deep breaths though…I’m sure we’ll all be fine!! 🙂

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I’m still further away from my wedding day, but I’m most afraid of a lot of “no” rsvps, especially from close friends.  I’m afraid of looking awkward and childish during the first dance since neither me or my Fiance are good dancers and will likely be doing the “7th grade sway” for 5 minutes while approximately 300 people stare at us (unless I’m first fear comes true that is….)

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LovebirdsSC:  Same. I’m nervous about messing up the vows. Public speaking has always been my biggest fear. Even though this will technically be public repeating, it’s such an important moment that I’m sooo worried about it.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

My biggest worry is that it’s going to be too freaking hot, and we’ll have to hold the ceremony indoors, instead. But since that’s completely out of my hands, we’ll just go with the flow!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m not really nervous about anything except perhaps slipping up in conversation and dropping the F-bomb in front of the wrong person. The Mr and I both cuss a lot and we really try to tone it down in social settings, but old habits die hard.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Legallyblondiebride:  THIS.  When I cry, my eyes get bloodshot, my nose gets red, and apparently I make hysterical “crying” faces.

Also, not being “in the moment” during the ceremony.  I’ve heard some people say that everything is blocked out during their vows- I would love to experience that, but I get nervous in front of people, so I don’t know if it will happen.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m scared of being the center of attention up in front of everyone.  I think my groom is too to a certain extent.  Our wedding won’t be huge or anything (we’re going to invite 100 people) but I hate public speaking.  Our wedding officiant made me feel better though he said we could whisper to eachother and focus on eachother and not worry if anyone hears us.  It’s about us and it’s for us, so I’m trying to think about it like that.  <3  

Other than that my main concern is family getting along.  My parents haven’t been divorced long but my mom is remarried (at one time she was engaged,pregnant, and seperated not yet divorced) so I’m scared to death hell will break loose.  Plus, I’m scared she won’t be interested in me on my wedding day….she’s just not into asking about things.  Maybe she’ll change before October.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m scared of the moment just before I walk down the aisle.  I hope it`s not too nerve-wrecking.  I’m also a bit nervous about giving thank you speeches.  But my strategy is to try and visualize everything going well. 

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