(Closed) What are your wedding ring plans? Can you help me with mine?

posted 11 years ago in Rings
  • poll: How are you wearing your wedding ring/band after the wedding?

    Wedding band right next to my original engagement ring.

    Wedding band on my left hand, engagement ring on my right hand.

    Wedding band on my left hand, no engagement ring after the engagement.

    Wedding ring on my left hand, no engagement ring after the engagement.

    Wedding ring on my left hand, no engagement ring during the engagement.

  • Post # 3
    9024 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    i plan to wear wedding band only.. dont like e-rings and love the simple look of a single band on the left hand

    Post # 4
    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I think your ring is lovely, (but if it’s not your style there’s nothing wrong with that). I would just wear a wedding band and get a different engagement-looking ring to go with it later on.

    Post # 5
    379 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Im just keeping my engagment ring and not getting a band bc I love it so much!  Maybe I will get a band in the future.

    Post # 6
    65 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    i’d like to wear mine together but they just dont fit together so i’ll be switching my e-ring over to the right…


    wedding band


    I think its fine for you to pick your own wedding band and have it not match, it doesn’t have to be a band either and i dont think ppl will just assume your just engaged. 


    Post # 9
    1870 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    You can do whatever you want.

    I think you’re on the right track getting a ring you like and just wearing that without the e-ring, then getting a complimentary band for the e-ring later.

    I couldn’t decide between two wedding rings rings, so my Fiance agreed–one of them will be used in the ceremony and the other I’ll get in a few years as a gift. He’s fine with me moving my three rings (2 bands, 1 e-ring) around so long as I have at least one of the three on my left hand!

    Really, it’s up to you.

    Post # 10
    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @AnneNM82: Oh! I didn’t realize, blame my poor reading skills. I think that ring is stunning and timeless. I would snatch it up in a heartbeat.

    Also, I saw a woman today who didn’t have a seperate band but I could easily recognize that she was married. Maybe it was the style of her e-ring/band or her age (most get married young around here), but it got the point across.

    Post # 11
    92 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think you should do whatever you are most comfortable.  It my mind, if someone is wearing a ring on their left hand, and on their ring finger then they are spoken for.  Engaged or Married, either way they are “off the market”.  I don’t think there is a right or wrong answer for this situation…to each her own 🙂 

    Post # 13
    5887 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2012

    i am hoping for just one ring- an eternity band engagement ring.  i’d wear it on my left hand and it would serve as both engagement and wedding ring.

    Post # 14
    2777 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I wear both of them on my left hand. They’re different styles, my ering is notched and my wedding band doesn’t fit it but it really doesn’t matter to me.

    Post # 15
    23 posts
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m in the same boat. I love my e-ring because my fiance picked it out, but it’s not something I would have picked out myself. I am thinking about getting an emerald-cut amethyst, surrounded by small diamonds for my wedding band and just wearing that. so many little decisions to make!

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