(Closed) What attracted you to your SO first?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What attracted you to your SO first?
    Appearance : (76 votes)
    33 %
    Personality : (127 votes)
    56 %
    Other : [explain] : (24 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 77
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    311 posts
    Helper bee

    Well, I met my Fiance online so the first thing I noticed was his good looks. I then got to know him better and found that I liked his personality even more. I think at least being attracted to the person is helpful, but sometimes you can look past unattractive features because you love them as a person. I can’t say yes or no to your last question unless I was in that situation. I think the guys I dated were fairly attractive so I don’t really have an answer.

    Post # 78
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    154 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    When I first met my Fiance I actually wasn’t attracted to him at all haha! I definitely “friend-zoned” him right away.. Oops! But as I got to know him better, I started to like him.. So I guess personality? 

    Post # 79
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    445 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I have to say looks because when we first met he didn’t talk to me. He had a girlfriend at the time though and I knew nothing about him at all, but I just had thus weird feeling we’d end up together. I brushed it off since it made no sense, I didn’t know him!!! It was really weird because I saw him and his girlfriend at a party and I got oddly jealous even though I was crushing on some other jerk at the time.

    6 months later, they broke up, I was over my stupid crush at the time (he was an ass like all the other guys I liked), we started talking, and 2 months after that we started dating!!!

    Post # 80
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    858 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2018

    My fiance and I have always been really close friends.  My boyfriend at the time could see that my fiance was in love with me and became insanely jealous.  Even if I hung out with them both together or I invited my boyfriend to hang out with us and he declined he would go on a tangent saying how I would leave him for my fiance.  After about 4 months of hearing that almost every other day I started to question why he would think that and saw that my fiance was interested in me and he has always fit me amazingly.  While I didn’t leave him for my fiance I still owe it all to his jealousy.

    Post # 81
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    2305 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    I noticed him because he went as a Chippendales dancer for Halloween and he has a KILLER body. We had been aquaintences before that, and after we started talking on Halloween (I was The Bride from Kill Bill and my boobs looked fanastic, so we’re both equally shallow ha!) we became closer. So I noticed him because of his appearence, and then I was attracted to him because he’s an amazing person. 

    Post # 82
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    114 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Both at once, if that’s possible. 

    We met at a club, he approached me.  Right off I was physically attracted (tall, broad shoulders, who wouldn’t be?), but also impressed by his self-assurance and the fact he didn’t immediately start grinding on me like guys usually do at clubs.  I love to dance, but HATE how guys assume that means it’s fine to basically hump my leg. 

    Looks are important, but I have fallen for guys I wasn’t initally attracted to.  A sense of humor makes up for A LOT in my book.

    Post # 83
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    578 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    I have always been a girl who goes for personality, but the first thing that made me notice him was his big hazel eyes and long eyelashes. He has the most lovely eyes 🙂

    Post # 84
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    206 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I totally didnt notice his looks or care when we first met! We met for a few days at a conference, and then went our separate ways. And then he started emailing me (long distance by the way) and that’s when i started getting attracted to him..i reckon its his personality..becos i totally didnt remember much of how he looked like 🙂 And when I met him again after falling in love with him tru those emails, he was the best looking guy ever (to me) lol! 

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