- 7 years ago
I’m 43, and even though I wish people in my life were more supportive of my choices, maybe I can share a little perspective. Got married when I was 19 to my high school sweetheart. Had the “big” wedding, families argued over who paid for what, and guess what? I barely remembered a thing. Fast forward 9 years, and my fiancé and I decided to run off to Mexico and get married. Best thing we ever did. No pleasing anyone but ourselves! No huge expenses! No worrying about what so and so did because we did what pleased us!!
Do what pleases you, forget about what everyone else thinks you should do or, for that matter, what you think everyone else should do! Remember what you’re doing and who you’re doing it with. If you’re trying to please someone else or keep up with someone else, you will both be disappointed!