- 8 years ago
I’m having trouble deciding how to incorporate my FI’s 2 sisters in our ceremony. They are 23 and 19 and we have great relationships with both of them I’m having 6 BMs already (my sisters, cousin, and a couple of life-long friends), and didn’t even want that big of a bridal party to start off with. They don’t play any instruments or sing, and they would not be comfortable doing a reading. Also, my Fiance doesn’t want candle lighters, as he wants the all the candles lit before the guests arrive. We definitely want to have them escorted down the aisle, during the family processional, but I still feel like I want them to do something else important, as all of our other siblings are either BMs, GMs or ushers. I don’t want to give them a token job, like guest book attendant or anything. What else is left?! Does anyone have any suggestions?