- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I’m not going to speculate on your friend’s motives or reasons, but the most you can do is try your best to show her you value her friendship and want to keep being friends, and then let go and put the ball in her court, and not take it personally if she chooses not to continue the friendship. I think it’s a good idea to message her just to make it clear that you do want to still be friends, but equally if she doesn’t reply it’s probably more about her than it is about you. Sometimes the people who are right or good for you at one point of your life stop being good for you at other points, and that might have nothing to do with how nice the people are themselves — it’s just the circumstances. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you and your friend.