(Closed) What colour shoes for toddler flower girl wearing a deep purple dress?

posted 4 years ago in Shoes
  • poll: What shoe colour goes best with flower girl's deep purple dress?




    Metallic (silver/gold)

    My suggestion's in the comments!

  • Post # 2
    2314 posts
    Buzzing bee

    IMO, I would let her wear what ever shoes and tights she wants.  If she chooses something she likes she will probably wear them again.  The dress is long so so they will not be showing most of the time.  I left shoe choices up to my Flower Girl and everything turned out fine.  

    Post # 3
    4111 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    My BM’s wore this color and they went with silver shoes. 

    But if you want tights too, I think black tights and black shoes would look better (and she might already have them and would more likely wear them again). 

    Post # 4
    47419 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    Post # 5
    21 posts

    I think little girls look sweet in which tights and white shoes

    it will lighten up her dress a bit – I think that black tights & shoes will be way too dark on a toddler …

    Post # 6
    408 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2021 - Long Island, NY

     I voted black shoes but I think metallic (gold/silver) would work too!

    Post # 8
    1701 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    If you can choose her favorite color, you may have more success. 2-year olds have opinions and don’t always express that at the ideal moment. I happen to have a 2-year old here today and she only wears pink shoes. Period. Anything else is a tantrum. 

    Her mom recommended ChasingFireflies for shoes. The 2-year old declared ‘want’ to these…:)




    Post # 9
    47419 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999


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    ksus07 :  Zulily stock does turn over fast, so if you see something you like, buy it. The shoes are very reasonably priced.

    Post # 10
    427 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2017 - State Park

     I wouldn’t worry too much about a 2 year old flower girl matching the wedding party exactly – and everyone else is right, she might decide that week that only mickey mouse shoes are okay and you’re really just going to have to live with it at that point. 

    White tights with black patent leather shoes was what I thought before opening the thread – that’s just what little girls wear when they’re dressed up. 

    Post # 11
    10656 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper


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    ksus07 :  

    That’s a very dark colour for a tiny girl so I’d go with silver or white or anything light ( or silly and funny )

    Post # 12
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

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    ksus07 :  I agree with PP that when I read the title, I immediately imagined a cute little toddler with white tights and black shoes. It seems to be the norm but I’m sure silver would also work too. I wouldn’t do black tights and black shoes because that does seem strangely dark for a little one. 

    Post # 13
    4035 posts
    Honey bee

    I have two toddler granddaughters. One will keep on her shoes, hairbows, etc.; the other one will take them off as soon as possible. I.e. If she got to the altar, she’d sit down and take them off.

    I’d go with as cheap and easy as possible, maybe no tights with ballet slippers.

    Post # 14
    186 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m thinking pink gum boots with purple flowers would be very cute, though not quite formal.

    Post # 15
    4 posts
    • Wedding: April 2018

    For me Purple is a very good color! What do you thing ?

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