(Closed) What decision about your wedding are you having a hard time making?

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

For me its the shoes, decorations, centerpieces and food!! ha ha, I am having the toughest time!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

The honeymoon! It’s all SOO expensive, and there’s a part of me that doesn’t want to bother with it at all, since we can’t have a dream European vacation. Plus my job has been kind of in limbo, like not sure how much longer I’ll have it, so that strains things a lot.

Photography was hard to pick too, but thank God I got that settled months ago.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We haven’t really made any wedding plans yet.  In fact, I’m not even engaged yet.  However, I think our biggest decsion will be the town we decide to live in.  He lives in Illinois and I live in Missouri.  We will def have to make a compramise somewhere.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Photography is DAMN hard.  There are just SO many photographers and I find myself find evening the minutest downsides to every photographer now, and those tiny downsides can be hard to weigh against each other.  Also, invites.  I really can’t make up my mind about them.  They aren’t that important to me, but I’m still having a hard time narrowing down what I want!  I have a long time though, with my wedding not till Jan 2012.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Photography was my easiest decision but I know I just happened to luck out with that. My toughie is food- What kind and from where? Bleh

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i think it will be the photography, the band and the dj. I haven’t started really looking for any of them (just casually browsing the internets here and there) yet, but i know they are all going to be toughies!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ours is definitely our ceremony and reception venue. We’ve probably gotten information on one bazillion venues and none of them have seemed quite right! It’s a good thing we are planning on a long engagement because I don’t think we could have done it much sooner.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

the time for the wedding is hard for me to decide… 4 moths for the wedding and i still dont know i what time 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

i have the same problem as Magenta!! & funny thing is, we’re date twins! i can’t decide on the time for anything!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Favors! how silly right? i dont know why it even matters. We thought of chocolate covered wedding strawberries (tux and dress) but then found out how much that would cost! NO WAY! hehe then i wanted mini yankee candles..too expensive too. ugh! i just dont know! too tough! 

I am thinking about skipping them all together……..

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Right now, it is picking a date!  Once we get that down, I think it will be photography. We made the mistake of falling in love with a photographer well out of our budget. Now, everything we see gets compared to them. 

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am having a hard time with my dress.  The dress I bought online from Perimart.com is dreadful! to say the least..I had to take it to seamstress here in New Husband and low and behold she has to remake the whole gown.  The seamstress said to me, ” Can you sell it and buy another?” Cry…Anyway I am not sure if I want to have her remake the whole thing or not.  I am not in love with it right now but I think its is because it is such a disaster.  Decisions, decisions..Undecided

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Photography is hard, but I firmly believe you have to just go with your gut. I was very picky about it but basically I just did a ton of research to find all the photographers in my area and in my price range, then started looking at slide shows. One of them just spoke to me more than the others. There was nothing I could point to really… she was the “the one.” 

 

Our hardest decision is kids v. no kids. Since we got engaged we have said we didn’t want kids at the wedding for several reasons. We’re trying to keep the event small, we’re on a tight budget, and neither of us are “kid people.” Most of my family seems to be taking it okay (and the few that might have issues I’m not really that concerned about bc I think they’ll get over it)… but there is one person on my FI’s side that might not come if we don’t allow kids and its really important to us that he be there. 

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