What did you do for Save The Dates?

posted 3 months ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
5967 posts
Bee Keeper

Magnets are very common, I don’t think it would look like copying THEM so much as the trend. 

My fridge doesn’t stick with magnets (most/all stainless steel don’t). I just sent out paper ones since I knew they’d be getting trashed pretty quick lol. 

Post # 3
252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2020 - City, State

I’ll be making my own, as I did for a friend. I used a 4X6 picture of them and printed the information on thin vellum paper. I attached the pic and vellum with ribbon, but I think I will use a simple brad to attach my own, as it’s much easier. 

Post # 4
27 posts

Magnets are very common, especially with a photo of the couple. However, they tend to get thrown out, as most people dont want it on their fridge long term or after the wedding. I’d reccomend saving some money and do a cheaper option. If people want it on their fridge, they’ll find a magnet for it. 

Post # 5
2303 posts
Buzzing bee

We just did postcards from our destination.  Very simple, easy and cheap!

Magnets are common.   But as PPs have said, I also have a stainless steel fridge, so I wouldn’t have anything to stick it to, so it would go in a drawer or in the trash after i put the date in my calendar, but some people love them and save them. 

Post # 6
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - Green Bay, WI

I think magnets are common and seem nice, but honestly people generally have magnets to hold up a paper save the date. We did paper ones with rose gold foil that matched our invitations.


Website address changed ^ irrelevant though, lol


Post # 7
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

Magnets are common, so it wouldn’t look like you’re copying them unless you used the same design or something. But sometimes people will put it on their fridge with a magnet even if it’s not magnetic. I was happy when I went over to a friend’s this past Friday night, and they had just received the save the date that day and it was on their fridge! (With a magnet – mine weren’t magnetic, I used Minted and they were printed on paper.)

Post # 8
905 posts
Busy bee

I would just do them on a postcard type material and size. A photo of you guys, or just the STD info. 

I personally cant put magents on my fridge as its stainless teal, and after a couple months end up tossing them (unless theyre relaly nice ill put them in a shoe box for memories).

Post # 9
1114 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

natasha0b :  Magnets are super cute if budget allows, but we cheaped out on ours and did paper postcards to save money. I wanted to spend the money more on other things than a STD that probably will be thrown away. 

Post # 10
2358 posts
Buzzing bee

Magnets are extremely common and have been for several years.  I’d suggest saving your money, though – the magnet ones are more expensive (and probably require more expensive postage!) and a lot of people have refrigerators that a magnet won’t stick to, these days.

Post # 11
1216 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I did a magnet too- you could just say you’re copying me 🙂

Post # 12
1496 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I did a magnet with our pictures… got it on sale so it was actually super cheap. 

I still have my maid of honors std on my fridge from 5 years ago and a lot of my family has a magnetic fridge so it was an easy choice. Even if they toss them immediately,  it’s fine because they were cheap. 

Post # 13
694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

natasha0b :  Magnets are pretty common. I just sent mine electronically to all my friends and family because that’s how I communicate with them on a daily basis and that’s what made sense. I didn’t see a reason to go out of my way to add more environmental waste when there is a better alternative available. 

Post # 14
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019 - Southampton, UK

I did magnets, too.

Post # 15
726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

We did credit card sized ones made from frosted plastic with silver foil lettering and came in a little black envelope. Something for peoples purses 

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