posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3783 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@mandauhhxo:  I haven’t had my bridal shower yet, but I don’t plan on dictating what they should wear. 

Post # 4
7999 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

I don’t think you can really dictate what they wear to a shower. I suppose you could suggest something if you’re having a theme, but that’s about it.

Post # 5
922 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Mine wore whatever they wanted.  I didn’t even ask what they were wearing.  They did chose lovely summer dresses. I wouldn’t want them “differentiated” from the “rest.”  Everyone should feel equally important at your shower, since they are all guests and part of your life.

Post # 6
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@mandauhhxo:  I didn’t ask them to wear anything specific. They wore whatever they wanted which was basically like sundresses.

Post # 7
1592 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I wore a nice dress each time I was a BM. Neither bride asked me what to wear.

Post # 8
531 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My girls all wore nice dresses, I did not ask for any specific attire.  I would have loved a fancy “southern” party with big hats and such but it would not have fit the time of year, (late October) and I also don’t think it’s acceptable to dictate specifics for your own shower. That’s just my opinion anyway!

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