(Closed) What did your SO do for his bach?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

My husband went with his buddies to a jazz club in Miami. He had a great time.

Post # 4
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He’s going camping and fishing with a bunch of his friends. But he would have vetoed strippers. Not my rule, his. They’re going to have a blast.

He also told me he’s going to eat a whole bag of doritos.


Post # 5
2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

He went out of town for the weekend with a close friend.  They saw some bands and went to an NFL game.

I know there was a lot of drinking involved but the got cabs and were safe. Nothing too crazy but he had a great time.

Post # 6
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my thoughts on a b party are they are rarely arranged only for the groom – i think the guy that arranges it does it more for himself than the groom 

for my hubbys party, they rented a private gentlemans club, had ladies on poles, private all girl sex show for those that was interested in watching, lots of beer on tap and food away from the stage

hubby said there was 2 groups of people, the guys up front watching the ladies and another group at the back, eating and talking/catching up on old times

at some point they tied my hubby to a chair, topless women and cream was involved but he didnt feel he was harrassed and the ladies were pretty respectful of his personal space/not taking it too far (one of the guys told the girls to take his clothes off and they refused)

hubby came home with cream on him/his clothes talking about how great it was to catch up with his buddies – it could have been without the ladies and he would have been perfectly happy

Post # 7
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Fiance is having two (ridiculous).  One will be a weekend in Atlantic City with just his closest friends (it’ll coincide with both his bday and his BM’s bday, which are two days apart, so it’s sort of a birthday/bachelor trip), gambling, probably a show, definitely a strip club or two, and lots of drinking. 

The “real” bachelor party will be the following weekend, a morning playing paintball followed by a cookout at the BM’s house and a party bus to bar hop in Philly.

He was going to do just a weekend in AC with the big group (his bach party is going to be like 50 people for the Philly one), but in the past when friends have done that it ended up being just everyone off gambling on their own at different tables (a lot of his friends have borderline gambling problems). Fiance doesn’t gamble that much- he enjoys a few hands of blackjack or a couple shots at the roulette table, but it’ll only hold his attention as long as his $100 or whatever holds out.  Once he’s out of money, he’s bored, and he’s thankfully not the type to keep hitting the ATM for more cash.  So he didn’t have much fun at those parties, and he doesn’t want that for his own.  He figures by going with just the close boys, they’ll be more likely to go DO stuff rather than sit around gambling.

Post # 8
3121 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

NOLA.  He’s having the party I wanted!!!!

Nice dinners, Bars, strip clubs, the usual.  I asked if he was having private strippers to the room…he said “No, those are called prostitutes.”

This isn’t one of the things I get upset about.  We actually went to a strip club together Friday night, LoL……we’re weird.

Post # 9
2195 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Vegas. It was some serious debauchery, but not strippers surprisingly!

Post # 10
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Paintball, beer/dinner, and a movie.  Nothing too raucous.  🙂

Post # 11
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Mine isn’t having one. He really didn’t care to.

Post # 12
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Darling Husband and his friends grilled out at his friend’s house and then they got incredibly drunk and had a beer pong tournament. Pretty tame, compared to strippers and such, but they all enjoyed it!

Post # 13
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t think my FH will end up having anything because his Bridesmaid or Best Man is not a good planner and has a bust schedule. They were supposed to go to south padre in three weeks, but not a lick of plans in the works… Feel kinda bad. He’s a great guy that goes out of his way for everyone else

Post # 14
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

He’s having a LAN party with a bunch of his buddies. I told him he should go to a strip club, but he says it would be too weird. Hahaha, he’s so lame!

Post # 15
2951 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Went to his best mans house to grill out, drink beers, play guitar and xbox ALL night. They had a blast!

Post # 16
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

His consisted of beer tasting at a local brewery, dinner at a nice restaurant and some bar hopping. He actually was kind of dissapointed since his brother (the best man) just kind of threw it together and didn’t make any reservations. The brewery had a private party like 20 minutes after they got there so they couldn’t really enjoy that (they actually got kicked out) and he didn’t make dinner reservations so they had to wait outside in the rain for almost an hour before a table was ready. I guess the bar hopping was okay even though he texted me the whole time which leads me to believe that he wasn’t really lovin’ it. Atleast he didn’t have high hopes for his bachelor party so he wasn’t completely bummed. He just would have preferred his brother put in a bit more effort.

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