- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
I have a matron of honor who is in town with me. A maid of honor in the town where the wedding will take place and two bridesmaids that are also in the town where the wedding will take place.
I feel like I might be asking for too much, but looking back, I’m not sure I have. I’ve asked for opinions on dresses and they don’t give much feedback. I’m paying for their dresses too. My mom is flying me and my matron of honor out to where everyone else is so we can choose dresses. So I haven’t asked anyone to spend a dime.
I keep telling myself everyone is busy too, but so am I and I really need help. The wedding is less than 100 days away and that isn’t including holidays and work time, etc. This weekend is a four day weekend and my matron of honor set time aside to help me write the invitations, but it’s Saturday and she has yet to come over to help, and I have a family party tonight, so I did most invitations already. She also was suppose to help me make the masks for the masquerade wedding, but she hasn’t.
I am apparently planning my own bachelorette party too.
I guess I’m just a bit hurt. My fiance is hardly doing a thing. He hasn’t even gotten my engagement ring yet. He hasn’t done anything he is suppose to have done, like book our flights and honeymoon. Which I did all the research for. I feel like I’m getting nothing done, because everyone thinks we have plenty of time. I’m at a loss of what to do. I know it’s the holidays, is it too much to ask for a little help here and there? I haven’t asked anyone to spend any money. We’re paying for our own wedding too. Neither of our parents will respond to me about having some sort of a rehearsal dinner so the two families can meet and talk before the big day. I have a feeling I’ll be planning that as well. So to date,
No idea for bridesmaid dresses
no ideas for floral arrangements
no tuxedo rentals yet
no engagement ring yet
flight have not been booked
honeymoon has not been booked
engagement photos have not been done
invites have not been sent out
I’m losing my mind here! The wedding is in the beginning of March. Am I being bridezilla??