(Closed) What do I do?

posted 6 years ago in 40 Something
Post # 3
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You should be the person. You seriously wouldn’t invite her because she is annoying? She is his fiancé, you do need tominvitemher, and if you exclude her it will cause drama, and put adrift between your Fiance and his friend.

Post # 5
959 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@LammChop: Agree with the PP…just be the bigger person and invite her. You aren’t going to be hanging with her during your wedding…heck, you may barely see her. Don’t let someone like her worry you…it’s not worth it.

Post # 6
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i posted earlier than you choose your friends not your friends partners – he is your FI’s groomsman and she is a packaged deal.  be the bigger person, be polite but dont engage.   goodluck!

Post # 8
389 posts
Helper bee

She seems to need a lot of attention and gets it by causing drama.

You are not her mother and cannot change her.  Be civil, but if I were you, I’d make sure to steer clear of her ENTIRELY!!  Yes, you must invite her to the wedding because of your connection to her beau, but be sure not to have anything to do with her prior to your day as she will be sure to give you a lot of stress.

Have your bridesmaids or Maid/Matron of Honor be a liaison for you if absolutely necessary, but do keep her out of the picture.  And, if you are in her presence, be sure to have your closest BFF’s around you for cushion and support.  That’s what they are there for.  Leave the gossip to a minimum so no rumors fly around and cause more tension.  I’m sure she will be on her best behavior at your wedding once she sees the support you have of your family and bridal party.

Good luck.  

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