(Closed) WHAT DO I DO??

posted 10 years ago in Wellness
  • poll: A quick civil ceremony?

    yes

    no

    wait

  • Post # 31
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    120 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Oh it won’t be tacky at all, Baileyh!!!

    In fact, I think it will be super nice. It will be like the first few moments when you just got engaged and you didn’t want to tell anyone about it yet – because it was your own little treasured secret. It will be really intimate and romantic.

    You can get a short dress, something beautiful and stylish, go get married, get a friend or a student photographer or someone free to shoot some nice city hall photos, then go out to a nice candlelit dinner just the two of you. 

    If I could have multiple wedding, I would!!!!

    And I am so sorry about your FI’s situation – but you guys can get through this, and create beautiful memories along the way! If you decide to do it, please keep us updated. I can’t wait to hear!

     

    Post # 32
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    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Does Canada Socialised medicine not cover dental work?  I am a huge fan of the health care system in Canada… I do a lot of business there and one of my BM’s is Canadian.  She just went through hell in a hand basket with root canals and a lot of other bad stuff.  Everything was covered. 

    I do think that there is a dollar limit each month in regards to dental work????  Any Canadians know?

    Post # 33
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    671 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2020

    I agree with the “do it but don’t tell anyone” strategy!!  Poor guy must be in some serious pain!  Dental pain is the WORST.  Ugh.

    Post # 34
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    4383 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @Ms. Caniche – The health plan here in Canada does not cover dental. My employer covers me either fully or partially depending on what it is.

    Post # 35
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    4383 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @Ms. Caniche – Just read the part about your friend, she was probably also covered by her employer!

    Post # 36
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    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I agree with the DO. My Fiance and I are lucky that his work allows engaged couples to be on their plans or I would be in a world of trouble. It has helped me so much, never having insurance before hand. I say do it!

    Post # 37
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    555 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Just a point to bring up and maybe it’s different in CA but we were all excited about Fiance getting on my insurance but it’s going to cost us about $500 a month for him to be on it . . . it’s much more cost effective for him to just go to the Dr’s at that rate so make sure there’s no additional fee’s for him.

    Post # 40
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    234 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    IMO, waiting is all risk and no reward.  Nobody needs to know if you don’t want them to, and like others have said, a city hall wedding may turn out to be a romantic intimate thing that the two of you treasure!  On the other hand, if you wait, his dental problem could get worse and leave him in more pain.  I can’t imagine he’s going to enjoy your real wedding if he’s in desperate need of a root canal!  I say go to city hall this weekend and get him healthy asap!

    Post # 41
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    1051 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Just take care of it all now!!  Even if he’s telling you he’s not in pain, it can’t tickle, and if they told you 8 wks was pushing it, an additional 15 days isn’t gonna fly.  You’ll all be much happier in the end, he’ll have better teeth for your formal wedding photos and you’ll have a cute little ‘secret story” bond between just the 2 of you.

    Post # 42
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    167 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    No go civil early!  If anything, then his teeth will look pretty for your real wedding pictures!

    Post # 43
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    388 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Let us know what happens!

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