- 2 years ago
First off, I think you should live on your own first before you move in with anyone. You’re young, you’ve never lived on your own and you’re going to move in with some guy who has kids…? No. You need to be by yourself first. You seem very immature and I feel like you would benefit from living on your own for a while.
I’d also like to say that I think you’re a bit young to resign yourself to being someone’s stepmother. I mean if you’re in love and he’s the one, by all means, but somehow I get the feeling that you two haven’t been together an overly long time. As a general rule, not always of course but most of the time, parents are very reasonable about relationships as long as they don’t think you’re rushing into something or making a mistake. You’ve given your parents a reason to worry and, in my opinion, as long as they’ve been good parents – supportive, they don’t take advantage of you, not abusive, etc – then you should probably listen to them or at least take their concerns into consideration. Remember they’ve been your age before and they know things you don’t. They can see things you can’t.