(Closed) What do I do about a Maid of Honor??!?!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

My sister and Maid/Matron of Honor was on an extended “vacation” from the weekend after I got engaged to a month prior to our wedding.  My other bridesmaids were more than helpful in stepping up.

Post # 4
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432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

She can still be a MOH! A mature, responsible friend would gladly help you out even without the “MOH” title. It’s all really up to you.

I have no bridesmaids but my friends have come to every appointment with me and the one girl is planning my bachlorette.

It’s really about what you find appropraite and what you are comfortable with, but I think if she means that much to you then you should absolutely let her keep her title and find help elsewhere. Best of luck!

Post # 5
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m not having one, but I do have a friend who I ask her opinion on stuff.  I also hope to grab her and get her to go shopping with for some stuff. 

I’d say ask your FI’s sister and see what she thinks.  If it’s mainly calling and setting up stuff, then that would work even long distance (depending on her calling plan, of course!).  Talk it out with her and THEN decide where to go on stuff.  After all, you have already asked and it would be a good idea to let her know what your mom is wanting.

If it were me, I’d want to know what your mom was wanting in the ways of help and I’d be pretty miffed if you picked someone else after asking me. 

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