What do I do about missing +1\'s?

posted 1 year ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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2757 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I really think you need to correct this mistake and invite the partners of the guests that were excluded, and apologize for the oversight in the first place. They are not +1’s, they are part of a couple, and I think its super rude that they weren’t included in the first place (although I understand that this was not your fault!). Also invite the family friend who lent you all the instruments too.

Post # 3
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

My guest list grew from a FIRM 35 to 58 because my partners family politics. My list did not budget but due to issues and drama we kept adding and it got to a point where he said well since we are close to max anyway (the venue holds 60) that I might as well invite the people on my B list. So we just did it and know that we will be paying if everyone shows up. 

*shrugs* invite who you need to invite. apoloigze where nessesary. weddings make people nuts, including the guests. deep breaths.

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