- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Ok so my parents have been divorced for about 8yrs, and my dad is remarried. Now my mom is still single and kinda selfish. yes shes happy im getting married but she keeps saying that she wants to look way better than my step mom on my wedding day. There has always been compition between my parents. I just wish they could act like adults and not little kids! Its always been a pain tryin to get my parents in the same room with eachother. Oh and then my step mother and fiance dont really get along much. My step mother thinks that cause we are young that we prob arent gona make it, and that we are not financially set, and she dont think that my fiance is gona be able to provide for me…etc. The thing is that my step mother has always thought i was her daughter and i dont care to much for her but i deal with her cause shes married to my dad. Shell go around saying that im HER daughter and shes MY mother. when I have a mother. and if my dad says one thing she has to say sumthing so he will side with her. yes i wana include her in the wedding but then again ik its gona cause problems between her and my real mom. what do i do???
So I have been engaged since aug. and my fiance had even asked my dad for my hand in marriage. and to this day my dad has not hardly spoke to me about the wedding. and when I do bring it up he gets really slient and then changes subject. Now I have comfronted him about it, but all he says is “that he didnt realize he was doin it”, and that apprently im thinking about all of this to much! Is it really to much to ask for a daughter to want her father to tell her hes happy for her, and say sumthing about the wedding? oh n also my father and step mother have no idea where i live because they claim they are to busy to come see us but we can drive an hour to go see them all the time. tell me if thats fair!
Please help me in trying to figure out a way to handle all this