- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
going try keep this short bee’s
my moh doesn’t like my friend who will be giving me away, she’s currently planning a surprise b’day party for her husbands 30th. now my friend as asked if he’s invited after all he and her husband work together and all other work colleugues have been invited. i told him that i didn’t know and said well mate i don’t think your on her christmas card list if that’s what your asking. he replied saying he knows she doesn’t like him, then he and her husband were talking at work talking about what moh husband is doing for his b’day. moh husband said my wife is planning a “surprise” b’day party for me. my friend asked if he was invited. moh husband says no…. and then my friend said i know your wife don’t like me mate, i know she doesn’t like me and ‘stokiegal’ being friends and that he didn’t care anyways what anyone thought about it. she’s now been texting and ringing my fi and asking why i’ve been stirring things…
i honestly don’t care whether they like each other, but i do care that everything has blown out of proportion over a comment about not being on someones christmas card list. i’m not a confrontational person and imo my moh is blowning thing way out of hand, says i’m being a bitch talking about her. i don’t honestly know why she cares whether or not if he knows she don’t like him.
after all the she has kicked up such a stink about, my friendship with my friend saying things like:
- it not fair on my Fiance that i have a male friend
- why am i friends with one of my ex’s friends
- that having him at my wedding willl cause her discomfort
- that having my ex’s friend walk me down the ailse is stupid
- that she doesn’t like him
- that i spend more time with him than her
it’s begining to annoy me now, my fi is fine with my friendship, is more than happy for him to walk me down the aisle,i want my friend at my wedding. i don’t expect all my friends to get along, i’ve never tried to mix one set of friends with another…. i just want everyone to set aside there differences for my sake just for one day, i am constanly playing peace keeper, i would do anything for my friends always have always will, just for once i want some of that in return. hey if my dad and step dad (ex best friends until one ran off with the others wife) can put their difference aside and obviously there is big history there then why can’t my two best friends.
sorry bee’s that wasn’t as short as i wanted it to be, i also suffer with depression and anxiety, i’ve had a rough few weeks and i’ve managed to keep my head above water, but it seems the people closest to me who know how i struggle would be the people to tip me over the edge
i’m so down right now i just need some comforting words … or even some constructive critism to help me keep my sanity