(Closed) what do i say to moh

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If he already knew she didn’t like him, I don’t understand what the big deal is. From what it sounds like, he wasn’t under the delusion they were best buds so you didn’t tell him something you already didn’t know.

On the issue of her not liking who walks you down the aisle, tell her to stuff it. That is your moment, and as long as your Fiance is good with it, her opinion, or how uncomfortable it might make her, is her issue. Do what you want.


Post # 5
4520 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It sounds like your Maid/Matron of Honor is being the difficult one here. I agree with SweetVanity — tell her to stuff it. She’s made her opinion clear about your guy friend; you’ve listened and you don’t agree, and now she needs to drop it. She’s said her piece. It’s not as if he’s doing something morally wrong/harmful that might justify her behavior. If she’s your best friend, she should hold her tongue and be civil, for your sake.

As to why she’s blaming YOU in all of this, I can’t even say. It sounds like something else is at the root of this — jealousy? Maybe you can explain to her that she’s your best friend, but this guy is close to you, too, and while she doesn’t have to like the guy, it’s really impotant to you that she at least accept him.

I’m sorry! 

Post # 8
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I posted on your other thread 🙂

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