(Closed) What do u do AFTER?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

We always go back to what we were doing before, whether cooking, watching TV, etc.

Post # 3
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Busy bee

Funny story, I noticed this too but never mentioned a thing. Then my SO randomly told me one day that he read some where that due to hormonal changes, men tend to temporarily disconnect after sex. I was like oh makes sense LOL and he’s like what do you mean? Do I do that?and I was like uh yeah LOL and he’s like I’m sorry Babe I don’t mean it! I still love you!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

My Fiance and I rarely cuddle after sex. We each go to our separate bathrooms and clean up then go back to whatever we were doing before. Doesn’t bother me. We spend most of our time together cuddling and talking.

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

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sarbear21:  sometimes we cuddle and are sweet and romantic, and other times we go back to watching TV or doing our own thing. Just depends. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Mostly sleep, or just continue what we are doing. I’m the one who hates cuddling though! Lol

Post # 8
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Helper bee

My fiance always wants to lie around and cuddle and whatever, and eventually go on his phone while we just lie there. If I had my way I’d immediately jump up to get cleaned up, then get dressed and get on with the day. I compromise by cuddling for like ten minutes and then we do our own thing!

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

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sarbear21:  Ah.. I’m more like your Fiance.  

I HATE cuddling after sex.  We’re all hot and sticky blehhh.  But at a hotel I’ll agree to stand on a balcony and chat while the breeze cools us off.  Usually we talk while we clean up, and then maybe go watch something on TV.  Heh.

Post # 10
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Busy bee

I’m a cuddler, me and Fiance wears ourselves out durning. So he lays there while I cuddle, the we get something to eat/drink.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

I think most guys in my experience do not do the whole cuddling after sex thing…unless you are both falling asleep or something. Never take that stuff personally.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

My Fiance is extremely loving.  He loves  to cuddle before and after sex.  Usually we spoon after: i hug a big pillow and he spoons behind me hugging my waist and my pillow together.  I feel so comfortable and safe in his embrace that i fall asleep within minutes. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

my DH tries to cuddle with me but I just want to get up and get the day moving. If it’s at night then we just hang out and talk until bed, though.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

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sarbear21:  So what happened when you brought it up to him that this bothers you…

Post # 15
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Busy bee

cuddling hugging light conversation falling asleep together, mostly just being together 

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