- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
So I got this invitation:
So I got this invitation:
Uhhhh… kinda just sounds like a big keg party. I wouldn’t think too much about it, just go if you’re free, and bring a box of wine. 🙂 In all seriousness, sounds like it’s just a fun party for their buddies.
I dunno…That’s very strange, I wouldn’t do that….But, it sounds like a very casual get together…I mean they said the word Kegs in the “invite” lol So maybe what they were going for is EXTREMELY casual…? If so, it works I guess…. ??
Did they post it as a public post or did they private message you this “invite”?
wow! talk about tacky! Before I even got to the part where you said it was on FB, my jaw dropped at the “be creative if you bring a gift.” And on FB?? That’s a whole nother level of tacky if you ask me!
If you’re not friends with her, or havent talked to her in years, I wouldn’t worry about it. I wouldn’t even RSVP, Just click ‘remove from my events’ and then delete her as a friend since you wanted to anyway. If it’s a FB invite and you were invited, but haven’t talked to her in 3 years, it sounds like it’s a general invite with no thought about who they invited, just a way to get money or gifts.
that’s all I got…I can’t focus on answering any further b/c my jaw is still wide open with shock! 🙂
Maybe they just invited everyone on their facebook since it seems to be just a big party? I wouldn’t think too much of it. Just say no
Doesn’t sound traditional at all and it seems like they’re inviting people just for the hell of it. LAME!
To each their own, I like it when couples are low key and don’t buy into the wedding craziness. Doesn’t bother me what other people want for their wedding. Don’t like it, don’t go!
@jenroh1984: Oh it was a public event.
@kelcheer412: The guest list is like 340 people, so it’s like they just invited everyone on their facebook. My guest list is 125 and that is only close friends and family. I’m not saying that is the way for everyone, but I would never invite every Nancy, Joe, and Bob to my reception, eloped or not. I felt like it was just a way to possibly get more gifts too.
@KatyElle: Oh don’t get me wrong, if that is what they want, then good for them. I’m allll for the laid back receptions. However, I was mostly puzzled by the fact that I was invited through facebook after not saying a single word to each other in 3 years. We weren’t even really friends in college, I was her editor on the paper. Not to mention they invited everyone on their facebook. It was like they weren’t inviting me, just me on facebook. I will most likely tell them congrats and not go.
i dont see the problem. It seems like a casual get together thats open to everyone they know. I agree with KatyElle, if you dont like it dont go.
PARTY!!!! Will there be beer pong?
I kid, I kid……
I don’t really see an issue with the casual, FB invite, HOWEVER, the part about the gifts is rude.
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