(Closed) What do y’all think about this situation?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Uhhhh… kinda just sounds like a big keg party.  I wouldn’t think too much about it, just go if you’re free, and bring a box of wine.  ๐Ÿ™‚  In all seriousness, sounds like it’s just a fun party for their buddies.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I dunno…That’s very strange, I wouldn’t do that….But, it sounds like a very casual get together…I mean they said the word Kegs in the “invite”  lol   So maybe what they were going for is EXTREMELY casual…?  If so, it works I guess…. ??

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Did they post it as a public post or did they private message you this “invite”?

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

wow! talk about tacky! Before I even got to the part where you said it was on FB, my jaw dropped at the “be creative if you bring a gift.” And on FB?? That’s a whole nother level of tacky if you ask me!

 

If you’re not friends with her, or havent talked to her in years, I wouldn’t worry about it. I wouldn’t even RSVP, Just click ‘remove from my events’ and then delete her as a friend since you wanted to anyway. If it’s a FB invite and you were invited, but haven’t talked to her in 3 years, it sounds like it’s a general invite with no thought about who they invited, just a way to get money or gifts. 

 

that’s all I got…I can’t focus on answering any further b/c my jaw is still wide open with shock! ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Maybe they just invited everyone on their facebook since it seems to be just a big party? I wouldn’t think too much of it. Just say no

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Doesn’t sound traditional at all and it seems like they’re inviting people just for the hell of it. LAME!

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper

To each their own, I like it when couples are low key and don’t buy into the wedding craziness. Doesn’t bother me what other people want for their wedding. Don’t like it, don’t go!

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@SoonToBeeMrsD:  What the begeezes is going on in Omaha right now?  I just got a similar one for this weekend (without the gift part).  Well good news, if you decide to go you can always meet up with ME ๐Ÿ™‚ for coffee.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

i dont see the problem. It seems like a casual get together thats open to everyone they know. I agree with KatyElle, if you dont like it dont go.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

PARTY!!!! Will there be beer pong?

I kid, I kid……

I don’t really see an issue with the casual, FB invite, HOWEVER, the part about the gifts is rude.

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