What do you do if your SO hangs up on you (phone)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

SO only hangs up on me when I’m nagging him while he’s at work.  If I call and start laying into him about something while he’s working, he coldly says: “Well discuss this when I get home” & quickly hangs up (I should really stop bitching at him while he’s working, & I’m working on it). If he does hang up I just text him, and he will carry on the conversation with me via text until it’s settled.  

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

lol, he knows not to hang up on me. It is so.freken.rude. The last time he hung up on me I sent him a text message saying ‘hanging up on me was not called for, you are not 12 yrs old anymore’

I will then call him a few hours later and chat like nothing happened. By then we have both calmed down and can talk like adults again. Neither of us like dwelling on little things 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@AussieSummer:  lol I am usually the one to do the hanging up and then I call back and apologize like 5 minutes later….let him call you back!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

He’s never hung up on me, but if he did, I would definitely call him back. I’m not one to give up an argument just because I’m hung up on. But like I said, it’s never happened. We don’t argue much, especially not on the phone.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

he hangs up on me in the middle of a fight, turns his phone off for hours, i keep calling, he doesn’t apologize, and the RARE times he does it is because i do first, for driving him to the point where he hung up…

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

In all our 6 years together we have never hung up on eachother, I hope we never do. It would make me feel our relationship has gone to another place.

respect is #1.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

When Fiance was my SO, neither of us ever did something like this… We’ve had petty arguments before, but we’re both pretty committed to getting through it together and figuring out the root of the problem. I guess we’ve never gotten to the point that we just want to shut the other out like that…

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would be SO angry I can’t even tell you. I think it is very rude and disrespectful to hang up on someone. I would probably not call back because of what I might say.

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@takemyhand:  i am not very good with what i say lol, i yell at him for hanging up, then that leads him to do it again, i need to learn to control my rage over him doing that, but i find it disrespectful

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think Fiance has ever hung up on me, nor I him. We don’t really talk on the phone much actually. Usually it’s text during the work day, then I see him at home.

The few times we’ve disagreed on something while on the phone, we either talk it out, or cordially say something like “We’ll have to talk more tonight” or something like that. Definitely no hanging up.

If he did, I probably wouldn’t call him back. The only reason he’d hang up on me is if I kept at it after he said we’d talk later… and we both know better than to push the issue.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Dell79:  That’s me too. Darling Husband has never hung up on me that I can think of… between the two of us, I’m the hothead 🙂

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If he ever hung up on  me, there would be worse consequences for him to deal with later.  If he did hang up though, I’d call him back immediately with the “are you serious?” response?  There would probably be a few unladylike terms tossed in there, though…

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

In my opinion the rude one isn’t always the one who hangs up.  Often times it is the person who won’t wait to talk about the issue at a later time and/or face to face.

So, again in my opinion, the hanging up isn’t always the worst act of rudeness going on at the time.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper

Don’t ever argue on the phone. It’s always good to talk about something serious face to face, and CALMLY, it is disrespectful for either party to yell. 

I “hang up” all the time, my phone is very sensitive and it likes to hang up on people, because my cheek is too close to the “end” button. I have now learned to talk with my phone away from my face! But now I bought another phone and it actually isn’t that bad, I can put it close to my face. Boy, do I miss the old land-line phones!

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