Post # 1
You want to spice up your married sex life?
Right now we are ttc and it is starting to feel alittle routine. (No porn suggestions, please).
Last night I had my husband write down some fantasies he would like fulfilled and put them in a jar. Each week I will pick one ans make it happen.
Would still love more ideas! Thanks!
Post # 3
That’s a good idea, I might steal it!
Post # 4
@runningcali: ….Mr. 99 likes to cheat on his wife…with his wife!
We’ll set a date to meet up in a bar someplace usually in a hotel, we’ll both get dressed up, I like to have a lot of fun with what a wear, and I’ll be sitting at the bar and he has to come over and pick me up, like we just met, and we don’t know each other.
It sounds silly, but its actually really fun!
Post # 5
@Nona99: This sounds really fun! Like acting hehe
Post # 6
@runningcali: being that you state you are TTC, are you charting, taking your temperature etc.. like do you literally plan to have sex on a specific day to get pregnant? or are you just not using birth control and having sex? (NTNP) I think that planning to have sex on a certain day does get redundant.. (but if you are having difficulty then thats another can of worms)
Let things come naturally and just have fun with it, as cliche as that sounds. dont look at it as a chore, think about when you just had sex for the sake of expressing your love not for the sole purpose of reproducing…
you ever considered sex toys? (not sure if you are into that being that you said no porn) or even something as simple as not always using your bed in your bedroom, try a different location in your home or elsewhere (depends on your comfort level).
I think the biggest thing is not putting that pressure on yourself being that you are TTC.
best of luck OP
Post # 7
@Nona99: That is hot and actually one of my fantasies 😉
Post # 8
@Nona99: SIGN ME UP!!!!! I wanna do that!!!!!!!!! But drive together LOL I hate driving!
Post # 9
I’m commenting to follow because I’m in the same spot. We could use a bit of spice these days.
I really like the jar idea.
I’ve been scouring the internet for lingerie, but apparently I have pretty specific taste and so many of the options out there a) all look the same b) are cheaply made or c) are a million dollars. I still think I’m going to order a few things.
Post # 10
@Nona99: haha! That was on an episode of Modern Family! Did you see that one, it was hilarious.
But a great idea nonetheless, will have to keep it in mind. Do you make up different names/occupations/personal details for yourself?
Post # 11
@Miss_Magoo82: …yeah, one time he was a race car driver, and other….he was a zoo-keeper. Sometimes its like he’s trying to get me to laugh at him and just fall apart, but its always really fun, and who doesn’t like hotel sex? You don’t have to make the bed!
Post # 12
@Nona99: SO JEALOUS! I keep trying to talk DH into doing this but he says he would feel silly trying to pretend like he doesn’t know me. I think it sounds hot!
Post # 13
@Nona99: okay, that is awesome. I’m gonna try that out . Thanks for sharing!
Post # 14
Uhhh so this is awkward that I know this but my parents did that. I think I must have clued in to it before they thought I was old enough to “get” their innuendo.
Post # 15
@Nona99: That sounds very Phil and Claire from Modern Family, love it!