(Closed) what do you fantasize about while you please yourself?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Depends on how turned on I am! It’s weird because the more turned on I am, the more I fantasize! But really, they’re not so much fantasies as they are memories of previous experiences. I just think of the times where I thought I was going to pass out from pleasure!

But because my guy is in a different state now, we make sure we include each other by having phone sex. It really helps A LOT in a LDR!

But yeah! That’s me. 🙂

Post # 4
429 posts
Helper bee

Ok this is soo going to sound weird, Too Much Information but I fantasizehaving a threesome, my man me and a randome girl !!! I knoo I knoo its crazy… but it jus turnss meee on a lot ! Yukkkkkkkk I know I can’t ever tell him that becuz I can’t even get over the fact that I like that in my fantasy ! Smh.. I’m so weird

I rlly wna see if any other bee fantasizez about that aswell.

Post # 5
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Youre not weird. Thats what I fantasize about too.

Post # 6
261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Past experiences, and if it has been awhile, what the next experience with hubby is gonna bring! I also find it erotic to think of him self pleasuring. for some reason it is just hot

Post # 7
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@chesseplease: I agree…Not weird….I think about that also

Post # 9
624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know this sounds weird, but I dont think about my Fiance.

I think about whoever pops in my mind.

( An ex, a celeb, hot guy from coffee shoppe, porn star etc…)

Post # 10
1013 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@chesseplease: yes that is what I fantasize about as well so gald I am not the only one!

Post # 11
327 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@chesseplease: Why can’t you tell him? I bet he’d be thrilled! Even if it’s just fantasy and you don’t actually want to bring anyone else into bed with you, it’s probably a turn-on for him to know what you’re thinking about.


@Ugoob: Oh, I don’t think that’s weird at all. I mean, you already get to have sex with your sweetheart in real life. It makes total sense that in your fantasy life you’re thinking about someone else?

Post # 12
990 posts
Busy bee

I hit up my highlight reel (moments during good sex)…I will also refer to hot scenes, celebs, and fantasies (3 somes)

Post # 13
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Gerard Butler.

Post # 14
2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011



Taylor Lautner Embarassed

Post # 15
660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@panterapeach: Love it!  Wierd thing is that I don’t think about anyone in particular…just the scenario more than anything.

Post # 16
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I agree tell him!! I think about the same thing. 

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