Post # 1
You all are going to think I’m crazy, but we are meeting with our pastor on Wednesday and we have to come up with things to tell him that we love about each other, so he can incorporate that into the wedding.
For some reason, I am drawing a blank!!! I’m so not good at thinking about specific things. I mean obviously, I love fi’s witty personality, his smile, the way he makes me feel, how he randomly breaks out in dance moves out the apt (lol)… but I feel like I need more depth than this.
Am I a horrible fiance that I can’t think of what to tell the pastor?! Help! What do you love about your fi or what kind of things would you tell your pastor?
Post # 3
I think that those are great things to love about your FI!
Post # 4
But everyone can say those things! Except for the dancing around the apt.. lol
Post # 5
I love his patience, how he can make me feel like i am the most beautiful woman in the world without even lifting a finger, his abilty to always make me smile even when i feel like i want to cry, i love waking up to him every morning and laying down next to him every night, and knowing that God has blessed me to spend the rest of my forever with my best friend…..
WOW….im about to copy and paste that and put that in my vowels, im tearing as im typing this!
I LOVE THAT MAN SO MUCH!!!!
Post # 6
Patience! That is a great one,… fi has 4805940 x more patience than I do!
You should def put that in your vows 🙂
Post # 7
I must say his sense of humour. He is the only one that can cheer me up when I’m having a really crappy day or when i’m down. He has this way of saying the silliest things that make me smile and giggle.
Post # 8
@cherrycoke: I think those are great ones too! I second patience and humor. I also love that my Fiance is laid back, loves children. He’s always in a good mood and cheers me up when I’m having a “moment.” He actually listens when I tell him something. He takes out the trash and helps with the dishes. You can make them funny if you want. 🙂
Do you have a good story you could share that shows some of those qualities you love?
Post # 9
kindness, sensitivity, intelligence, for mine.
You know, what if you ask yourself to remember little moments where you just felt super in-love right then at something Fiance did, and then ask yourself what that said about him, his qualities, his personality, that you love. And then when you talk with your pastor not only will you have those qualities, but examples of them ready.
Post # 10
The ability to identify the start of a freakout or stressful moment and immediately calm me down. In addition to humor, patience, endless understanding, and love of animals and children 🙂
Post # 11
I love that Fi is kind, he makes me laugh constantly, and he knows just what to say/do when I am sad, mad, or frustrated. Oh, and he is an electrician so he’s very handy around the house. 🙂
Post # 12
Any others? These are all great!
So far I have this:
What I love about Fiance is….the way he randomly sings or busts out some dance moves wherever we may be… at our apt, at the grocery store, in the car, wherever!
What I love about Fiance is….he is so laid back, yet gives me his undivided attention when I am worried or stressed about something. He always knows the right thing to say to put it all in perspective.
What I love about Fiance is….his witty sense of humor (need to expand on this).
What I love about Fiance is….he knows how much I despise winter and being cold, so he will go outside and clean off my car after it snows and warm it up for me before I leave in the mornings.