Hmmm….cant say its crazy. I mean come on. Wedding planning can be strressful, and when you have Bridesmaid or Best Man that adds to it when its so not needed. what is so wrong with venting? I mean really, none of us really know e/o, and many of us can sadly relate. ITs a way of getting it off your chest so you DONT go crazy! I would rather vent over a blog then going Bridezilla on a Bridesmaid or Best Man, I dont think thats so crazy! LOL but thats just me!
I mean, I am planning a wedding in a state I am not even currently living in, its back home for me, the Military has brought me elsewhere, so its a hell of a challenge trying to plan my wedding when I now live so far away. For the most part like I said earlier, my girls all rock, I have my friends who have remained true to me back home, and kept in touch since I have been away for YEARS, then I have my friends I met in the military who have become like fam to me seeing that I have no family out here! Unfort, there is one who gives me a hell of a time so to her I would love to say this, and yes I would never have the heart to say it to her face. I can be irritated, you can push me to far. But I am not one for confrontation, so I always let things slide…but if I could, and had the nerve to say something it would be….
BM- I am sorry you decided to rush into getting married as a teenager and never had a real wedding, if you dont like my ideas, too bad, its not your day! Stop trying to tell me what YOU would do, or are GOING to do for when you do have your big wedding, its been over 7 years since you got married. If your going to do it, then do it, hell, I will even help you because I will have gone through it all, if not stop talking like you actually know what you are talking about, until you can relate to wedding planning, zip it! Stop trying to push your ideas on me because you think its funny or would be cool, its tacky! I dont think its funny you want to make your husband sneak into my wedding wearing a tux T-Shirt, I dont think its funny you want to switch into and wear lime green sneakers in your Bridesmaid or Best Man dress, I dont think its funny that you want to pay my DJ off to play songs you KNOW i dont want played. But ha-ha you think thats just Hilarious. Nice try, just for that I hired a more expensive DJ who will have a very in depth CONTRACT! I wish i had the balls to be like this in person, I wish i could express my frustration that you give me, but I never do! I let you pick the dress out, I only said what color it had to be, I let you pick whatever shoes you want that are comfortable, i understand they wont even really be seen, but yet I am Sooooo demanding and I am bridezilla. Because heaven forbid I dont like the idea of you CUTTING your Bridesmaid or Best Man dress, to create a slutty long slit in it so you can “dance” better at the recception.Ohh….and I am sorry that I CANT give you a date that my bachelorette party is going to be on. Pretty sure thats my Maid/Matron of Honor job, and I am sorry she does not live here for YOUR convienence to let you know OVER NINE months in advance when its going to be. And I am sorry that all my other Bridesmaid or Best Man are true and loyal and tell me when you are bitching about all this nonsense behind my back!