(Closed) What do you silently judge people about?

• Hbomb84
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 2012

• LittleDove
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: May 2015

I judge people who whine and whine and whine about something they can change but do nothing about. I may get some hate for this, but I just don’t understand. If something makes you sensitive, self conscious, sad, and you CAN change it, why wouldn’t you?  If something is out of your control and you complain about it, I will feel sorry for you. If you have the capability of changing your circumstances and do not, then loudly whine, I will judge you.

• Torrid
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

Oh snap.

But seriously, brown teeth need to GTFO of here.

• Hbomb84
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: November 2012

• misshydra
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: August 2013

• Torrid
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: December 2012

• Mrs.Larson11
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

I honestly hate being judgemental it makes me feel terrible but I cant help it! The way some kids dress! or even adults.. pull your pants up I dont want to see your sponge bob boxers.

• Jenniphyr
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: February 2013

I not-so-silently judge smokers. (I cough, hard, if I get a whiff; but it’s technically not on purpose, so I don’t know if that part counts or not.) I can understand that quitting is hard — but I just don’t get how people are stupid enough to start in the first place.

As for things I judge people for with weddings…I’m not going to get into that, because I think that the thread will just get deleted for “not respecting wedding choices” of other brides. Suffice to say that there are things that raise my brow, but it doesn’t affect me personally, so whatever. No skin off my back, right? (Now smoking, on the other hand, DOES affect me if you do it in a public place.)

• allyfally
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: April 2014

I judge people who have nice cars, nice clothes, can buy as much ciggarettes, beer and energy drinks as could like… But then have an EBT card.

I make minimum wage and they tell me I could only get like $10 a month if I applied, yet these people can have $600 in food stamps?

I dont understand. A co worker of mine (she actually makes about a dollar more than me) was complaining the other day that they cut her food stamps from $500 every month to $400. She has 1 kid and she lives with her dad. And she’s complaining about getting $400 extra to spend on food? Pisses me off.

• lookingglass
• 8 years ago

People at work who bitch and moan about their weight and then eat McDonalds for lunch and are the first people to run to the sandwich man for a packet of crisps.

Does my head in.

• jothecatlady
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: March 2013

I judge people that earn a lot of money and have nothing or very little to show for it.

• Jacqui90
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: April 2019

• MrsOliveBird
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: June 2010

I judge parents who whine endlessly about how expensive their children are. (Did you NOT THINK that they would be costly before you had them, crazy people??)

I judge parents in public who ignore the bad behaviour of their children.

I judge people who get into debt for luxury items and holidays. 

I judge people with bad breath/ bad teeth.

I am pretty much a judgemental bitch.

• barbie86
• 8 years ago

Bad parenting is possibly my biggest bug-bear; that can be anything from feeding your child a load of junk (it makes me sick the number of obese parents I see buying their already obese 5 year old a trolley full of crisps, cakes, sweets, processed food, etc etc), to taking your child to a completely inappropriate place, to letting them run riot. I also judge people who choose (ie make a conscious decision to TTC) to have a child when they cannot support one financially and/or are not in a stable relationship.

I also really hate bad spelling and grammar, particularly in a professional context. I have actually clicked straight off a webpage before for poor spelling and grammar, as IMO it is inexcusable and unprofessional.