Post # 1
One of my best friends and I are both getting married next year. She is getting married in July, and I am getting married in August. I asked all of my bridesmaids back in August because I was just too excited to wait. (I have been engaged since April). My best friend who is also getting married in July is one of my bridesmaids. My friend has not asked me to be in her bridal party. I’m not sure if she has asked anyone yet. I know she has a couple friends back home and a sister, but I think I am a lot closer to her than them. We went to college together, and she now lives in my hometown. I know she hasn’t asked any of our college friends to be in the wedding, but I have no idea about her hometown friends or sister. How soon did you ask your bridesmaids? I know her wedding is still like 7 months away and there’s still time she could ask, but how would you feel if one of your best friends didn’t have you in their bridal party? Is it rude for me to just ask who is in the bridal party? She is one of my best friends, and we discuss wedding stuff all the time because we are both planning weddings.
Post # 2
I wouldnt ask. If she wants you in the wedding party she will ask and if she doesnt I wouldnt put too much thought or worry into it!
Post # 3
Ok…her wedding isn’t about you. And maybe she’s decided she isn’t having a bridal party. You’re really reading into this whole thing. Maybe she’s decided she just wants her sister up there. Just because she’s in your wedding party doesn’t automatically mandate her to put you in hers.
If you’re really that curious, just ask her who she’s decided to have in her bridal party. If you’re both planning then I’m assuming you talk regularly about this stuff. But don’t be upset if you’re not in it, that’s kind of selfish.
Post # 4
Mine isn’t until October, but I haven’t asked anyone yet. I’m still bouncing back and forth between the last slot because I’ve been in more weddings in the past than I have spots for. So I just haven’t asked any yet. I’m also waiting to come up and put together a unique and cute way to ask them. Also waiting until after the holidays so I can get together with each of them. So maybe she is just waiting to ask! Especially if you don’t know of anyone else who has been asked. I definitely wouldn’t ask her though.
Post # 5
You will know who she has chosen when she tells you. There is no need for you to know before then.