- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Is it okay to ask your friend to be a bridesmaid, her son to be ring bearer, and her husband to be an USHER… also considering that my fiancé and I were both a BM/GM in THEIR recent wedding?
Or is the family going to feel as though we’re demoting the husband? The ONLY reason we can’t consider him a Groomsmen is because my Fiance has another (unmarried) friend who ties for this position, and we also didn’t want to hurt his feelings choosing the husband over him just because we were in their wedding. We hope we’re solving this by making the BOTH of them ushers… what do you think?