Post # 1
When you think about your upcoming wedding, is there something specific you focus on? What do you love imagining? Anything you’re avoiding?
I can’t not thinking about that moment coming down the aisle – you know, when FH and I will see each other for that first moment, and how amazing/emotional it will be. I’m also constantly thinking about the honeymoom, and getting to travel together for the first time as husband and wife. Glorious!
I try to imagine how I’d like the morning-of to go, knowing that it probably won’t be that smooth. It’s like I’m trying to figure out where the problems will be, so that I can (hopefully) avoid them.
My other favourite thing to think about is getting all my new ID with my married name. Cheesy and silly, maybe, but it gives me butterflies.
I’m totally avoiding thinking about the father-daughter dance (even though I have picked a song) because it makes me too emotional. My dad and I are close, and I know I won’t be able to get through it without crying. Sniffle.
Post # 3
I can’t stop thinking about how much I’m going to cry. I’ve always been emotional, but ever since I got engaged I cry about EVERYTHING. If I’m retelling a sad story that I heard, I get choked up. You don’t even want to know how much I cried at someones wedding I don’t even get along with very well! I can’t wait, though. 🙂
Post # 4
- Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall
@chercee: Before my wedding I had nightmares and terrible thoughts about all the vendors royally screwing up. Now that I think about it I didn’t really focus on anything good… maybe except for my dress 😉
Post # 5
@sam.stoinski: Hahahaha I so know what you mean! It’s amazing how the tears come so easily now, happy or sad. Yesterday as I was listening to music selections, every single song made me well up. Don’t forget your waterproof eye makeup!
@mchitt329: Oh no! I hope you didn’t really spend your whole pre-wedding time worrying! Did you feel major relief after? Did everything go well?
Post # 6
The honeymoon. I can’t wait for the honeymoon. 😛
Post # 7
The last week or so, I can’t stop thinking about the food and cake! I’ve started a really healthy diet thats all natural (brown rice, lots of vegies, tofu, greek yoghurt etc). Its been OK so far but I absoloutely can’t wait to sink my teeth into an indulgent meal and a piece of cake!
I’m also constantly worrying that my hair will look bad.
Post # 8
Doing our first look is probably the thing I imagine most, then walking down the aisle to a super pretty song, the first dance… everything goes so smoothly in my imagination, I’m sure it won’t be that easy in reality. (My dreams are another story, nothing ever goes right!)
Post # 9
@chercee: I also can’t wait to change my last name! It gives me the warm fuzzies and makes me smile to myself at work.
Fi is/was pretty mum on the subject, but I had decided long ago that I would change my name. He won’t comment except to say that it’s my name and my choice, but then we went to a new vet and I gave my name as his name (next time we go it will be, so may as well simplify things, right?). He was positively BEAMING. It was awesome.