(Closed) What do you think about this “ending friendship” letter to moh?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 19
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60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

IAE alhad had to let my Maid/Matron of Honor go. Although I’d like us to be friends. She just completely dropped the ball as a “best friend”.

 

Are you going to ask a Bridesmaid or Best Man to step up? I’d love to see how you word that. I’ve been deciding how to ask my Bridesmaid or Best Man to stepup to Maid/Matron of Honor without offending her I didn’t choose her originally( although I should have!)

 

Post # 20
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2294 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I just went back and re-read your vegas story. Do you feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders? What’s with some people? That girl sounded…just…completely mean!

Post # 21
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4858 posts
Honey bee

@MsNarwhal:  If she writes back, I’d just respond with “cool story, bro” and block and delete.  Don’t get sucked into writing back if she’s snarky!

Post # 24
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189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think that was the best way to deal with it.

My ex-best friend & I had a falling out (I only wish it was as civil, she was VERY rude and called me some names & said things that are unforgivable which only served to enforce that our friendship had come to an end).

Removing her from my wedding was my best decision and from my life was a huge weight off my shoulders.

I hope you have the same luck with your ending friendship as I did and that it works to your benefit.

Post # 26
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234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MsNarwhal:  That’s a relief. Drama free response! Now you can focus on more happy things!

Post # 27
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895 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MsNarwhal:  I have had to go through the same thing with one of my BM’s not too long ago. It was sad, but I felt a huge weight lifted off my chest after I “ended” our friendship.

From her response, it seems that she was ready too. Good luck to you in the future and I’m sending happy vibes your way! 🙂

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