(Closed) What do you think? (husband is perhaps being a douche)

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 151
626 posts
Busy bee

I am very sorry to hear about your grandfather. As you said, he’s lived a full, long life. I hope the rest of his time will be peaceful and calm.

I do think you need to think about your financial plan before you think about having children. Kids come with predictable expenses (diapers, bottles, pump, etc) and unpredictable expenses (even more diapers, any unpaid time away from work, extra coffee to get yourself through the day). Do you guys intend to split these, 50/50? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with keeping separate finances, even though in my relationship we do not. But you do want to make sure you’re not going to be left in the situation 

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FutureDrAtkins :  described. I agree with her: “Marriage is a partnership – one partner shouldn’t get to eat caviar while the other eats canned tuna.” 

Post # 152
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I wouldn’t know what to do if someone did that to me, I’d probably say the same things. I don’t deal with emotions or death well. I don’t think he is being s douche, he is having a hard time knowing what to do or say

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