(Closed) What do you think? Is a proposal on the way soon? How were you able to tell?

posted 4 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: When do you think he'll propose?

    I don't think he's ready yet

    He'll propose on your anniversary

    He'll propose soon

  • Post # 2
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    Busy bee

    Have you tried having a serious convo with him about marriage? That should give you a better clue or a direct answer

    Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

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    dimplecherry :  

    I agree with pp about a serious conversation. I’m actually surprised that a conversation didn’t happen after he was already on one knee.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I don’t think any of the “hints” from other people mean anything. It could just be wishful thinking from his mom and uncle. Ignore those. 

    Whether his eloping comment means something or not really depends on how much he was joking. If he actually wants to elope, I’d believe he was heavily considering. If he’s like Jim from the office with the repeated “oh let me tie my shoe” pranks, then no I don’t think it means anything. 

    Theres really no way to know unless you have an honest conversation. I don’t understand why people can be ready to get engagement yet can’t actually talk to that person about it. Unless you actually have that conversation, you are likely setting yourself up for disappointment because you are basically just hoping that your bf can read your mind. If I were a guy, there’s no way I’d want to propose unless we actually talked about marriage and timelines and I knew she was going to say yes. I mean, what if the girl had some goal for before marriage that meant she’d rather it be put off by a year? 

    How did I know a proposal was coming soon? We talked about what we wanted from our relationship and life like adults. I didn’t know the exact date, but I knew an approximate two month span. I also knew that if he wasn’t going to propose then, he’d talk to me about it and we’d have a conversation about what that meant. 

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