(Closed) What do you think is most attractive in a man?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

He’s calm, organized, takes charge of things. He’s strong and independant, yet chooses to spend most of his time with me and is into small details that will make me feel special.
He’s also very secure.
He’s got the nicest eyes, nice hands and shoulders, biker’s legs… Handsome!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Intelligence. I’ve dated, booty-called, some dumb hotties, but never could date a man who couldn’t hold his own in serious conversations.

Confidence. Ambition.

A nice set of broad shoulders doesn’t hurt either!

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh i thought we were talking physical traits. I wanted to say ‘arms and shoulders and upper back area’ haha.

I don’t really have one trait i find most attractive in a man. But i value intelligence and motivation

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Intelligence, confidence & compassion for others.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m with gabrielle…definitely intelligence.  I love when Fiance talks neurology to me….it turns me on.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My fiance really respects other people (and animals), and as a result, he is NEVER mean or small. 

That’s probably #1.  My second favorite thing is his confidence in himself.  He knows his worth, but manages to have no ego about it.  I have no idea how he does that.  🙂 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Oh yeah, intelligence!
@Virginia Marie: I wish I was turned on by my DH’s work… He’s a computer geek who loves star wars… Well, good thing he’s got other things going on that do turn me on!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Intelligence.

Then humor.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I love that my fiance has a tough exterior, but is really the sweetest, caring guy on the inside.  When you get a second to talk about something that he really loves with him, it’s like he’s a kid again.

I love that he will be an amazing father & I love that he loves me too!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

I am glad we are all on the broad shoulders page. My boy has some very, very nice shoulders and a small waist, and it makes him look very triangular, which is super hot. Mmm.

ANYWAY.

Haha. He is also really funny, which makes me very attracted to him.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 1998

Intelligence closesly followed by a good sense of humor. Nothing hotter than a smart man who can make me laugh.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Confidence, ambition/success, eyes/face.. Confidence is there or it’s not. I can’t take someone seriously if they are wishy washy.. I can be a little flighty myself so I don’t want a partner that needs coddling. I say ambition/success not in a strictly $ way, but overall. Life is always about learning and growing, so someone that is lazy or is always trying to figure themselves out is a turn off.  And eyes / face – I like to feel engaged, and looking at attractiveness 🙂 ha! I’ve only seriously dated one other person before my husband, and though he was handsome and smart, I was annoyed that he didn’t have his life together (I was in school, while he had been graduated for a couple of years).  I felt he had so much potential, but that he was lazy and self indulgent. Like, it’s great that you want to be in a band b/c you have talent, but shouldn’t you get a big boy job first so you can pay your rent? I may be lazy too, but ends always meet and that’s an important trait to me in a partner.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Physical: Height and a great smile

Personality-wise: Confidence and a sense of humor

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@egb–hahah, computer geeks are such great people to have around!  I am not tech-y at ALL, I always need someone else to fix my stuff for me!  That knowledge is sexy!

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