Post # 1
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Sugar bee
I have a couple on facebook who shares a facebook account. They did have seperate accounts at one point, but then got rid of his and meshed the two. Now they do dual status, like ” We had the best weekend!”… and such. Their name is her first name, his first name, his last name. I mean, I don’t really understand. Like if he doesn’t use his, why not just delete his? My husband deleted his, and sometimes if theres pics or something funny I show him, but otherwise he doesn’t care. If he wanted to share one, I would tell him to reactivate his (which I have told him to), but he doesn’t see the point.
Anyways, for some reason it kind of (not that much) bugs me alittle, mostly because I don’t understand…. what do you guys think of it?
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
I knew a couple who did this and yah, it’s weird.
Post # 4
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Busy bee
I just think its weird. Maybe people have their reasons, but it seems like a trust issue.
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
@floridagirlblue:
Kinda seems that way… I thought that, but still not sure if that’s the reason, or if for some reason it is more convenient?
Post # 7
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Busy bee
I know people that share email addresses. don’t think so…
Post # 8
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Bumble bee
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To me it SCREAMS trust issue. I don’t understand it. I totally get like 50 year old married couples sharing a family EMAIL account…. but to me, Facebook shared accounts (which I’ve only really seen in younger 20 something couples) says “we have trust issues!”
Post # 9
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Sugar bee
@dkacerek:
Yeah me too. And the only couple that I know who does this, the wife seems to be the only one who uses it anyways. For some reason I find the two a bit different though.
Post # 10
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Sugar bee
One of my best friends and her husband do this. They weren’t big FB users when they got engaged/married so they combined to make it more convenient for themselves. It is what it is, but I would never do it.
Post # 11
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Busy bee
People I know who have done this who weren’t really on facebook before they had the joint account, or were but never used it . . . for them, a shared account doesn’t seem that odd to me.
For most people though, it would be odd. There is no way my Fiance and I could ever have a shared account, for instance. It would defeat the purpose for us of keeping up with our people.
Post # 12
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Sugar bee
@Mrs. Eagle:
Yeah shared email accounts and shared facebook are different to me. I can’t really explain why, but a shared email seems normal, while facebook doesn’t?!
Post # 13
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Honey bee
I could totally see a couple making a dual account if they’ve never had FB before, but to delete the individual ones and create a new dual account… you’re still individuals, you know!
Post # 14
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Sugar bee
I say, HAVE YOUR OWN FUCKING IDENTITY!
Post # 15
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Sugar bee
@Neetch:
Yeah you have a point. I don’t really remember the guy using it that much, so maybe he wanted it shared to make his life easier with everything. But now I feel like I only have the girlfriend on, not the guy, because it seems to be her using it mainly anyways….
Post # 16
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Sugar bee
It makes me think they have mega issues. To me it’s like going through each other’s mail all the time, with no reason.
I would never consider it.
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